Recent content by Mr.225

As Rollo says, I was "awakened while married". It's not the best. I wouldn't mind finding some buddies in St. Louis who are red pill aware. I am 40, educated, professional, and I have my **** together. Mr. 225

Once again, I would like to thank everyone for contributing. I appreciate all the responses. I am considering them all. A quick update: I got home from work the yesterday, and she followed me around like a puppy dog. I ****ed her and fingered her (something have never done in 10 years...

O.k., yes, but I think she does not like things to seem to predicable. I didn't say this before, because this is the exception and not the rule, and I was trying to keep the initial post not too long. So, I am not sure always spanking her is the answer. I am of the opinion that anything...

Yes that makes sense. Maybe I am not taking away from your advice something you want me to, but let me rephrase my question. Rollo says in The Rational Male, that women communicate covertly or through their actions. A man should basically never listen to what his woman says. However...

I am entertaining this. So, lets say she says, "Why are you doing this?" Why did you do that?" etc. etc. This would be a drastic change in behavior from what has been going on...recently. Recently, I have been aloof. I have been spend my time working on the house (renovating a bathroom)...

From a biological perspective, I think you are right. Sex at Dawn is a book that supports your view here. Maybe this is getting too far afield into the theory on this, but Sex at Dawn's hypothesis is that a change takes place in the sexes when agriculture is introduced. To me, this...

I understand why you write this. One reason I hope that your wrong is that we were married when I had no resources, and I was still clearly a notch above her in SMV. So...I am hoping (I realize it is hard) to re-establish "the frame". I have had frame in fits and starts, but never the way a...

I want to thank everyone for writing in. In the initial post, I tried to give the most important information. What didn't make the cut, is spanking. I have spanked her before. First, it was a joke, and she clearly liked it. Second, it was a prelude to some of the hottest sex we ever had...

Sure thing. I agree. It is possible. Although, I don't totally understand it. Doesn't she want non-starfish sex with somebody? She never leaves the house hardly, as she works from home. She doesn't want girls nights out, she wants to go out with me, and have boring transactional sex, not...

I am totally cool with this approach. I am comfortable with confrontation (much more so then she is), but I think a conversation where I lay things out, how they should change, etc. shows a bit of weakness that she will lose respect for, right? When people resort to overt communication then...

First, I married before I knew about Red Pill theory. So, I married for the same reason any other Christian blue pill guy marries. I did and do, love her, and I would like to keep her, provided the sex were better. As I said earlier, in a lot of ways, she is a good wife, but in this one big...

I am new to the Red Pill, and to the forum. I have read all TRM books. I find them as valuable and full of truth as all of you. I was awakened while married, (this year) and I would like the insight of the community here, if you all would be willing to make suggestions. I am 39. She is...