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    First date - offer to pick up vs. meeting at venue

    I agree. The tip on inviting silence during a conversation is something that is relevant to me. I've noticed constantly talking is just exhausting for both parties, and its something that I feel like dating coaches don't talk about enough. Silence can often times be golden, as the old saying...
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    First date - offer to pick up vs. meeting at venue

    Fair enough. My conversation skills are solid, I think in this particular scenario it was the girl who sucked at conversation, she also didn't speak very much English so there's that. Nevertheless, my point still remains that you don't want to do too much driving with a girl you don't know...
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    First date - offer to pick up vs. meeting at venue

    This is a good point. I wanted to eject on my most recent date, but it was difficult to do so because I drove somewhat of a distance. Ended up having a fairly unpleasant experience.
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    First date - offer to pick up vs. meeting at venue

    Just don't do too much driving, I recently had a date where I drove a lot and I think it killed attraction. Also make sure you have the right jams set up on Spotify from the get-go, otherwise listening to some whack **** will kill the vibe.
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    Making approaches automatic?

    I've honestly just been making it a point to say "Hi" to people lately. Or initiating a basic social interaction such as saying "Have a nice day" to a clerk rather than letting them be the first to say it to me. Like you, I tend keep my head down and handle my business. I'm usually pretty...
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    Being Chill During Cold Approach

    Right. I think being clear with my intentions is definitely something I lack with women, but I may have been overcorrecting and have been displaying a vibe that is too intense or perhaps too overtly sexual. I've heard other say that the proper frame of mind is something that goes like "yeah...
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    Being Chill During Cold Approach

    When doing cold approach is it ideal to emit a chill, non-chalant vibe? I've heard some people say that you should imagine yourself ****ing the girl you're talking to so that when you walk up to a girl you would have a very sexual vibe emitting from you that she would pick up on and therefore...
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    Single guys who sleep around, how are you finding hookups during this time where you have to stay seated at the bars?

    Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better. I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    As Jimwho mentioned above, would you recommend opening with a compliment? For example saying "Hi, I think you're attractive" is definitely expressive, but I feel awkward being that forward and honest. I know London Daygame Model recommends this type of opener, but I find it a bit overwhelming...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    Interesting, I like it! That definitely takes a lot of the pressure out of the interaction. I realize now that in my head I wanted to start off the conversation with a sexual tone, but that probably would overwhelm the girl and completely hit her out of left field. She probably wouldn't...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    Agreed. Yes I do most of the auxiliary things to make myself more attractive. Lift, eat healthy, skincare, etc. Working on some certifications to enhance my professional life, although I do get a little lazy from time to time, hah. However, I still feel a step-by-step approach is the move...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    That's pretty much what I'm doing right now. Surveying environment and getting a feel for when a good time to approach would be and thinking of things to say. I'm pretty sure at some point I'm going to get the hang of this. I'm pretty intent on getting this part of my life sorted out. I've...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    Yes, absolutely. I think it goes all the way back to even Mystery Method to some degree. PUA's would often say to hide your intent, as showing intent is needy, beta, low-value and/or supplicative behavior. This type of advice wasn't useful for people like me, who were the sexually repressed...
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    Value in Intending to Approach, but Not Actually Approaching?

    For most of my life when I would see a hottie I would simply ignore her, and act as if I had no desire to interact with her. I would repress any notion of approaching and would actively avoid coming into close contact with her. Lately I've simply been entertaining the notion of approaching...
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