Recent content by Modern Man Advice

This girl is irrelevant. What matters and should be addressed here is your lack of confidence in the sexual realm and anxiety about sex overall. Make an effort to find out where the anxiety is coming from and tackle that. If it comes from inexperience as you stated in the beginning, try to...

Ultimatums are always a red flag. It comes from a place of insecurity, a desire for control, and mistrust. Ultimately, you want someone who doesn't need validation or confirmation on where each other stands. If she's just a plate then enjoy while you can, if you're considering long-term then it...

This has already been pointed out but helps to reinforce: 1) You are not on the top of her list. She clearly likes you, but not enough to give you sex and prioritize you. She isn't opposed to sex, given that she demands "better logistics" and that she is already giving it to another guy. 2) She...

I just shared this with another ss member privately but I will share it here for visibility: Men thrive in tribes. Human nature and human history have bound us with a great responsibility to lead those tribes into prosperity and safety. A responsibility meant for every male but not one every...

This is pretty spot on... Modern Man Advice

Big difference between whining and calling out/pointing out. Know the difference.

Why are we talking and complaining about the same thing over and over and over again? At this point, it sounds like whining. Nothing about "dating" apps is new. We have become a broken record about many stupid subjects. If you wanna treat it as "another dating option", that's on you but know...

I concur. The reality of most long-term relationships is that we become complacent and comfortable. It is almost inevitable. Those "trendy-happy" couples you see on Youtube/IG are fake. Very few LTR keep it "fresh", "hot", "exciting", "new", or "all smiles". The biggest reason is the "new and...

No. Lack of purpose is. And made worse by focusing on things men cannot control.

Support, respect, trust in our leadership (once it's rightfully earned), and above all peace of mind and lastly good sex. The same goes for relationships with children plus the nurturing and raising of our children. In both instances, yes the man's role does not change.

"Providing" is an integral part of masculinity/manhood. However, it does not always have to be in tangible form. An integral part of a man is to provide leadership, guidance, support, safety, and resources for his community (be that large scale aka society, or small scale aka close circle). If...

You can argue back and forth about whether taxation is legal or not. If you talk to former IRS employees a few of them will be brave enough to say it's not. But putting that endless discussion aside, the problem is not whether it is legal, but how it is used and where most of it goes.

As always, it is impossible to generalize, but you can draw patterns with large group cases. In this case Europe as a whole. For the sake of simplicity, @CornbreadFed pretty much nailed it. For as much as there is a feminization of society, nature always wins and women have deeply ingrained...

Thanks @Dr.Suave @nightwalker75 They are out there. Very few far in between but there are out there. As discussed millions of times, you cannot possibly draw generalizations. While some black pillers will say virgins are probably nuts or have issues, interestingly enough they will say the same...

Well, she is making a case against her should it go south. She is clearly obsessed and mentally unstable so it'll be easy to prove in court. But as suggested before, do not engage. Even with her friend. Remain cool and collected - Stand your ground. Continue recording and saving ANY...