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Recent content by MikeTampa

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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    FWIW, I got a text at 11:52pm on Friday night from her (33yr old that got scared and stopped talking to me) that simply said "Hi." I was actually with another chick and didn't know who it was from at first as I had deleted her number, but Blackberries keep old text threads alive, so when I...
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    What constitutes stalking?

    Here's a question that I thought I'd post to the board: What exactly do you believe constitutes stalking? I was at work yesterday and went to hang out on the fire escape with the smokers. I don't smoke, never have never will, but I like a lot of the people that do and just needed to get away...
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    Motivation

    PMed.
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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    Just a side note that I realized this afternoon that I had actually forgotten about: About two weeks ago, we were in bed and she asked me if I would come to Costa Rica with her to her sister's vacation home the first week in December. I had actually thought that sounded cool and priced some...
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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    First of all, thanks for another great series of posts. You guys are really spot-on with a lot of your analysis. The one thing I would say about myself is that while I may have sent a bad message to her in being nice, I was more or less being nice because I'm generally a good guy, which is why...
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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    1) Divorced early on (she's 33 but was shortly married then divorced). 2) Was with another dude for 5 years who left her. Daddy is still around, parents are married, sister is married with a newborn.
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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    Wow, holy sh1t guys, I didn't expect such responses to this! :up: I actually just posted it up, went out and had a few drinks with another chick at a bar near my apartment only to wake up this morning to find a half a novel written! Thanks! Anyway, yeah, I never had any intention of this going...
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    I'm done with this chick but was just wondering if this is a BPD case...

    I post on here a few weeks ago talking about a chick I took to Tahiti and had an awful time with. In that thread, I mentioned that I was also seeing a chick here locally and many of you said I should just pursue the girl in my city. Well, I did and I've never seen a case such as this. I think...
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    Long time reader, first post in months, need an evaluation.

    Hey guys, thanks for the $0.02. I appreciate it. I think a lot of you are right, it's a bit of wanting what I can't have, compounded by me feeling as though this fun aspect of my life was taken away from me without me really doing anything to deserve it. I also do feel as though I want to...
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    Long time reader, first post in months, need an evaluation.

    Hey guys, thanks for the responses. I got home late last night and just read through them this morning. You guys are spot-on with a lot of what you've said. I'll put together a more cogent and elaborate response later today when I have more time to sit down and write. I just didn't want...
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    Long time reader, first post in months, need an evaluation.

    Mr. Me, I agree with a lot of your analysis. I think I may have stunned her with my comment about the trip, but if I may, let me extrapolate the same way I did to her: I told her that I had been there since her mom got sick and that I had always told her to put her mom ahead of me. I told...
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    Im 27 how many women should i have been with by this age?

    I'm 27 and at 20 I believe...
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    Long time reader, first post in months, need an evaluation.

    First off, I've been reading this board for years and used to post under the name JeeperCane before forgetting my password and unsuccessfully trying to get it reset. Anyway, I'm back after a few months to get a fresh take on my current situation from you guys, who have always helped set me...
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    Need a little advice...haven't posted in a while...

    (Well, I guess my posts are now showing up....) First off, I used to be posting under the name JeeperCane but had cleared my cookies in my comp, couldn't remember my password and when I tried to have it reset, never got an email from the board like it says I should expect. Anyway, not really...
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