Recent content by Mikeman!

Steve, you have several options.... 1. Shave your head(If you can pull it off well) 2. Get a hair piece/system 3. Use topical concealers(lookup Dermmatch/Toppik(hair fibres) 4. Try medications(Rogaine/Propecia) 5. Get a hair transplant I have made use of topical concealers to very good...

I have these issues at times as well. What I find has helped me out quite a bit is taking this daily and if possible, again, 30min before sex: 900mg Yohimbine 900mg Horny Goat Weed 1500mg L-Arginine 800mg Ginko Biloba It gets the blood flowing and libido going...

Blueguy: She is definately indecisive/confused, desperate...However I think what she was doing was juggling me and this other guy at the same time and this guy was willing to move to be with her right away, whereas I had told her we'd be together by the end of the year. She was just so...

***UPDATE*** Firstly, I'd like to thank everyone who contributed their wisdom to this thread, it truly did help me... Just thought I'd give you guys an update on whats going on with me...Life is good...I have 2 other women I'm seeing, I've been taking salsa lessons, going out with friends...

WaterTiger: Thanks for your input/putting this into perspective...If she is infact married already, you're right, she is quite imbalanced and this was for the best. Desdinova: That is quite the insight...I've known her to exaggerate/fib during this breakup..(telling me it will be so hard to...

I suppose I'm wanting to leave on good terms and to show her I am still the man she fell in love with... before I had turned needy...a man of quality.

I'm willing to put my ego aside and say that something about what you've said is ringing true for me. I'm afraid you may be right, I believe that I did not handle myself well enough when we had met... She did put up with a sub-par marriage for 5 out of the total 10 years and is afraid of going...

Francisco d'Anconia : I slept with another girl. a few times it didn't help. Burningblue: Seeing as how she just jumped into marriage with someone else, perhaps you're right. The attraction/love has died down on her end and was re-ignited and projected onto someone else. RedPill: When I...

Words cannot begin to describe how I'm feeling right now...I am utterly and completely devestated! I feel like all is lost...the life I was hoping to realize with the women I STILL have love for will now never happen. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=94432&highlight=Mikeman...

Update(for those who are interested): Like some have said here, if I DID want this to work out, the best thing would be for me to leave her alone...I did that and 2 days after Valentine's(today), she's now sent me a short e-mail via phone saying she's thinking about me and hopes I'm ok...

shyguy32, who are you to tell me what I felt? You're not me. I wish I didn't love her at this point honestly because I'm going through hell right now...I can't eat, I can't sleep, and even when I try to keep myself busy I still can't stop thinking about what happened...it's torture! and...

rodumusprime, We exchanged many pics over the internet and webcammed...I'm a good looking guy who works out..she is physically attracted that's not the issue. It's something else...

Well everyone...it's over. I made one last ditch effort to gain control and reframe things. I sent a message basically saying Our relationship was about exploring our capacity for true love against all odds and not everyone can rise to this challenge, and that I was disappointed that she...

Kandyass, I realize what you're saying about this relationship being mainly based through the internet/phone and that things might be different when we spend time together. I wouldn't commit to moving permanently if through all the visits, things didn't work out the way we planned... And...

Right... How dare I allow myself to feel those emotions. It is what it is....