Recent content by louis

Thanks to everyone who has replied - including those who were critical. OK, here are my views. Age difference I've got mixed feelings about this. But ultimately it's down to people feeling comfortable with each other, whatever the age. Internet v Real Life I think the internet is...

Recently, I have been becoming more daring in my online interactions with women. I'm talking about internet personals sites. Inspired by this site and David DeA, I decided to adopt a heavy teasing approach. I decided to look for something they wrote about themselves, then use it to have fun...

Hey, put those flamethrowers down boys ;) This reminds me of a discussion I had with a guy at a 'Lindy Hop' dance last night. We were admiring the freedom and confidence of some of the experienced male dancers. I decided I would like to be free and natural on the dance floor, but that I...

I know this thread deteriorated into a slanging match, but I'd like to add a little more. This one is credited to David DeAngelo and a poster on sosuave called jwhite17: "Can I ask you a quick question?" She says, "Yes" Reply with "Are you single?" (If she says "No", say "OK...

No, that doesn't work.

Hello all, Does anyone know how to search for a phrase on these boards? For example - "Are you single?" (If I try it, I get every occurrence of every word, instead of just posts using the whole phrase)

Excellent thread jwhite - thank you for posting. Many years ago, I decided to start approaching women, and I was surprised how quick and easy it was to get some interest from girls. I think I used to say something like "excuse me, do you want to go to a concert". The response was usually...

One idea is to emphasise their actions, not their looks. Example: Instead of: 'You look stunning' it could be: 'Good choice of outfit'

Hi everyone, Just a brief update. I actually replied - 'Is there something wrong with being single?' I'm happy with this reply, because it throws it back at her, and I'm not starting to justify or defend my position. And it's also true - I am happy with being 'single'.

Thanks everyone - some interesting options there

Was a response from an online advertiser I responded to. Context I am 46 and single. The woman advertising says she is 38, divorced with no children. My history is that for a period in my life I avoided contact with people and relationships, but that period has come to an end. I now...

Any opinions anyone?

I started another thread on this called 'Favourite conversation starters' here - http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?threadid=47132 Regarding 'hi', that's fine, but it's what you say next that's important. There's no point in saying 'hi' for it to end up like this - Man: hi...

One piece of advice I read suggested going up to women holding out your hand to shake hands and introducing yourself "Hi, my name's X". Personally, I try to avoid the handshake, except in a formal/business context.

While I was in the cafe, I worked out that am in situations where I can meet women for at least 2 hours every day = 14 hours per week. These situations are: Travelling by train and bus Cafes Shops