Recent content by lifeisgood

Hey there. After nearly 4 years of mostly separation from my wive and us being officially divorced for the last year I am ‘trying’ to move on. Most of the past years have been a struggle with the occasional passionate sexy time thrown into the mix.-Sex was always what connected us. For years I...

Wow! I just came here to be inspired for the day, browse for something interesting and found this "old" post. It is gold and truly, truly the best advice that any young man could be given. Wish someone had given this advice to me five years ago... Well, you live and learn. Thank's Pook!!!

Tictac, That is one of the reasons I am happy not to be living under one roof with her at the moment. All her aggression is directed towards me, whereas She is absolutely brilliant with our daughter, loving, caring and happy. I would never want to part them, our little daughter needs her...

Tictac, Thank you for opinion. I see where you are coming from with your advice. I have been hanging in there since 4 months before the birth, when my wife really started to become abusive. Signs for BPD were there all along, since I first met her, I was just to clueless about it and in...

Dear Scaramouche, Apology accepted wholeheartedly. Indeed, I too am very fond of Joseph Conrad. It was books like Lord Jim that have led me to seek adventure in the four corners of the world. After vagabonding around for eleven years, who would have thought where I ended up! It is pretty but...

Hey! I am amused! Which is great, as recently there has not been much to amuse me...:) Scaramouche, you just turned a negative feeling towards you on my behalf into a positive one! Thank you for the the compliment! I am actually a tradie who lives in Tassie! It helps that I was brought up in...

Ha, I agree with you logicallefty! Somehow they are always right, no logic or standards needed! Scaramouche, I think it's time you left me alone.

What is your take on woman who generally dramatise situations. You know the type who make problems appear bigger than what they are. They talk to their mum or best friend and blow things out of proportion rather quickly and regularly. Until now, I have not come across many in my life,- perhaps...

Thank's for the advice so far! Let me make this clear; I aint no troll and certainly not a lady journalist with a hidden agenda! My problem is genuine and I will try to make the best decision for the love of my daughter. I knew things were gonna change and that I or we would be taking a...

Hello there, Just stumbled upon this forum when I was looking for advice. There seems to be a whole lot here... I have been with my wife for a little over three years. We have been married for a year and a half and now have a four month old daughter. My partner has always had a very...