Recent content by kyokon

Travel, yes definitely! Loan, umm... why? Surely you can save for a trip, it doesn't need to be a year. Why not a week for starters, you might hate the place :D At least if you paid your own way, even if you come back with nothing but your experiences at least you are only broke, not...

wtf. she told you about it, dont worry. its when you find out by yourself that's the problem :D

yeah its mostly just biological programming which I kinda resent sometimes. I mean if you think about it logically a man has no real need for a woman unless he wants children. yet here we are.... the most productive guys I know are either married and therefore chasing bjtches is not on their...

ymmv but i have done quite well by stating up front that i like being single and not really looking to change, but "you never know if the right one came along, well..." i think this is good because they will try to be the one that is so good that she makes you change your mind, but you have...

"well if you are lucky, I might even use it" :)

and i would leave out the 'butterflies' stuff... something like that worked for me once but I think only because of other circumstances

yeah pulling the trigger can be a bit hard sometimes but the more you do it, the more you will realize the direct correlation between kissing a girl, and getting her nekkid and slippery hit her up again but maybe not with 'i want to see you' - i hate it when girls say that to me, it sounds...

you need a hotter chick :p

I second this. Even if it doesn't work - and it might not if she is self-conscious of her boss behind her - it will boost your confidence a lot to have tried, and now she knows you are interested she can always tell you later.

I have done pretty well with these in the past, the basic things I noted were: - girls will be inundated with contacts when they join, your message will likely be lost in the flood, so msg them a bit after that - but not too late; I've lost count of the number of times that by the time I...

usually I have spent some time with them already that day so I'll say stuff like how I was looking at them (specific times that she will remember) and getting turned on and what I wanted to do, like I am letting them in on my secret desires. eg. "when you bent over to pick up your purse today...

i keep a guitar in the room and can play it fairly well, seems to help quite a bit :)

man, you sound like a real doormat. not just for her, but for 'friends and family' and such as well you should have ended it before the wedding. too late for that now, but you can still grab your balls and do it now. you have the moral high-ground. i was in a similar (except not quite so...

As already said you dodged a bullet... come back in 6 months time and see if you are still 'needing' her...

what cougar craze? do I need to watch more TV or something... i know of sex and the city and its ridiculous story lines, but are there more out there like that