Recent content by Juan Valdez

In fact I Am for real. I think it would be very hard for most people to stop being what they are and be me instead. Firstly, because they are not me, and secondly because they are themselves instead. But the thrid and most important reason it would be hard for most people to be me is...

1. I do not indulge in drug use commentary. The casual abuse of commentary on drug use is a terrible thing in america today, and I can not condone such abuse of commentary. 2. It is *mystique*, not "fresh puzzy" which inspires art, it's insight which expands awarness of it, not double speak...

good advice it's all good advice guys, thanks for the help. Like I have said elsewhere a lot of this has crossed my mind, but it helps greatly to be able to confirm it. I have begun to withdraw a bit , I am not talking to her at all about how I feel about the whole thing at this point...

smooth Rob, your on the mark. :)

I don't know about that. In my experience they just latch on tighter and tighter while they become increasingly more boring and uninspiring. As I said in the divorce forum I have never been left by a woman. Women don't leave me, they just lock on like sea urchins and refuse to let go.

Allan~ I meant that once the most attractive qualities are gone I really wish they would just stop fixating on me and being all mysterious, because I really just want them to GO AWAY. I am an artist, I spend my whole life making things beautifull and interesting for other people. No one...

reply nice. Well it is partly true. While I do not turn into the typical guy EVER, I am sure that my behavior does change when I am actualy enamoured with a woman; Furthermore, it is likley that I am too accessable to women I desire. as for how to turn such a situation around? any...

If she wants space it may be over, however, if she is still arguing and starting loud fights then it is transparent... ...And nothing but high sexual tension. Next time she starts to scream or argue, remain silent, then when she asks what you think kiss her passionately and take her...

Be her friend. Help her understand what she needs from a man, what she deserves. Talk to her about the men she is interested in and why...oops they fell short, hmm ...too bad she deserves more, maybe she should look elswhere? maybe here, maybe there? no, they all fall short....wait a...

I apreciate the advice of course, but while I can not deny that I am in pursuit of perfection, i don't expect it. I just want to know why these women keep shutting down becoming totaly silent, and seacing to produce or show any interest in producing inspiration in me. i do not mean to...

Help I assume you are dating sheep-women, it's easy Here are your tools: Ask questions about her interests, not direct questions this isn't an interogation. When you know her interests begin to ask easy to answer questions , then let her answer and seem impressed. Free associate...

reply No woman has ever left me, so I can not totaly relate. They all seemed to think I was the worlds best catch...except they did not actualy catch me. I have however been divorced twice which by age 30 is saying somthing. Still nothing compared to my fathers 12 solid divorces by age...

Hello, I am new to this forum and somehow I seriously doubt I will remain an active member, however for now I shall raise some thoughts and questions for inquiry. I am a painter that is a fine artist, a wine connoisseur, a lover of tailored suits, high culture and intelligence. I come...