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    Cold, Distant and then Cut Off - Making Amends with A Girl. Possible?

    Thanks oldmanofthesea! This is a fantastic response. It reaffirms many things I was thinking myself. I need to understand the importance of the virginity thing because to some people that seems to matter more, maybe it is to do with the girl just as much as the losing. This isn't a guy who is...
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    Cold, Distant and then Cut Off - Making Amends with A Girl. Possible?

    I think I can see this happening. He's beginning to talk about leaving that retail park to peruse his passion. I know one day I'll be able to look back on this with him and laugh with how he was but right now I just got to keep him from going to low.
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    Cold, Distant and then Cut Off - Making Amends with A Girl. Possible?

    Sorry, I knew I would have missed important factors. He slept with her twice in that time but he has mentioned to me that he feels he under performed on one occasion. She was his first, that is what I meant to say when I said he told her her was a virgin. He said it because he was worried I...
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    Cold, Distant and then Cut Off - Making Amends with A Girl. Possible?

    Maybe I got to admit defeat on this one and just let him do his thing. Hard to see him struggling so much and no matter what I say, nothing changes. Perhaps he's suppose to struggle in order to eventually learn and realise. Lack of experience will stay that until more is gained. As true as it...
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    Cold, Distant and then Cut Off - Making Amends with A Girl. Possible?

    Hi all, I've been out of the dating game for quite a while due to now being in a long term relationship but I have a friend who is REALLY suffering. I mean really suffering. I need to get him on the right path but I'm rusty. I still know the basics but need some guidance on how to handle this...
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