Recent content by jkars25

I'm trying to find a wingman in the SE wisconsin area, specifically Milwaukee and the surrounding suburbs. I'm 25, have a full time professional job, average looking. I'm a newb when it comes to sarging but gotta start somewhere.

I realize that being in the friend zone is often like a black hole -- once you get sucked in there is simply no coming out. Ever. I figured this out the hard way, and nowadays I STILL sometimes find myself ending up in the friend zone or becoming an orbiter. But at least now I am perfectly aware...

Yeah everything you guys said makes sense. I've already learned a lot from this thread alone. Definitely helps to hear somebody give it to me straight. Looking back, I'm a little frustrated at my own inadequacy and inability to escalate things and maintain attraction. I can now see, as others...

Thank you for the advice, I just bought the kindle edition and am reading it now. I did respond to her smiley text, but not until the evening when I was at a party. All I said was: "I'm dressed up as batman. Try and tell me that doesn't turn you on a little ;)" She responded "Goof. Have fun...

Good advice. Basically I'm on 4th and long, but i'm going for it.

Dude I spend 50 hours a week working and another 15 hours a week training, and in season spend a good chunk of time traveling to races. I usually don't give a sh1t about women and never run into this kinda problem. This situation is unique....somehow she has triggered some kind of emotional...

One added complexity is that we both live with our parents. Before anyone says something smart -- she is 23 and finishing her undergrad, I am 25 and live with my mom because I am temporarily moved in to help her afford her house by paying rent.

Realtime update: 1:09 PM she sends me a text message with just a smiley face (As I said, the volunteering thing that she brought her male friend to, happened this morning) It's like she is deliberately trying to fvck with my mind.

You are both probably right. I'm just debating whether I should let her know she's a confusing, disrespectful *****... or just walk away.

Alright, I'll try to explain this sequence of events as best as I can up until present time. Approximately 8 weeks ago I went on a first date with this girl. We met for coffee, it went really well and she suggested we see each other again. Second date I kissed her good night. We ended up going...