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    Should I be frustrated?

    Exactly. Never hang out with a girl and her friends until you know she’s in love with you. He’s setting himself up to be ignored the entire time.
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    Flaked on first date than asks to reschedule next weekend, should I delete contact or reschedule 2nd?

    A better offer was presented to her. She did offer to reschedule which is a good sign even if she didn’t offer a specific day. Personally I don’t do weekend dates but if you want, say let’s meet Friday at this time and this place. Then pay attention to her answer.
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    If you hear “I think we need a break”

    Never try to keep someone who doesn’t want to keep you! This is her way of breaking up with you. Just agree to the break and make it permanent. Let her do all the contacting going forward.
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    I took back my offer

    Went on a couple dates with a girl I met at the store. Asked her out for a third date and she told me she will be in New York for a bit but she’s down to hang out when’s she back in town. She gets back Wednesday and contacts me on Snapchat. Saying she was on break from work and was thinking of...
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    Funny situation - matched with a friend of my plate

    I agree. She is not a plate at all. You haven’t even slept with her yet and 8 dates is way too long. I would’ve left after 3 dates if she didn’t want to get physical. She’s using you for attention and emotional support. And some other guy is probably tearing her walls.
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    She won't be able to go on a date for two weeks, what do I do until then?

    If she lost interest during the 2 weeks, then she wasn’t interested in you in the first place. I wouldn’t contact her at all. The ball is in her court so let her reach out to you first. In the meantime start dating other women now. Never make one girl a priority until she’s earned it.
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    Help?’

    Don’t initiate contact. Let her contact you first. When she does, set a date. If she doesn’t agree to one or gives you the whole let’s be friends speech, tell her no thank you and contact you if she changes her mind. Go get more options and let her see you hanging with other women too. Nothing...
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    Help?’

    Too much texting. You were coming on too strong giving the relationship vibe.
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    Good Drink other than beer

    Water
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    Second chances

    I absolutely give no second chances to women who ghost me. It’s extremely disrespectful. If you’re not feeling it anymore, cool let me know. Say anything. Be mature and inform me that it’s not working. I don’t care if you make an excuse. I was dating a girl for about 2 months. I got the vibe...
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    How to follow up with her ? - need good advice

    Move on! This girl is too much work. If she was really interested in you you wouldn’t be working this hard. She gave you the cheek TWICE and you are still chasing her. Enough is enough. My advice is ignore her. Let her bring up getting together.
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    When a woman you know (and have banged) since a short time tells you to come over, but she;s on her period...

    Fuvking a girl on her period is just plain nasty but that’s just me. It does seem she wants more than just sex. It seems like she asked you to come over making you think that you were gonna to have sex and then snuck in she is on her period.
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    Should I date this woman which has a boyfriend?

    By making a move. If she’s saying yes to meeting you at your place, she’s letting you know she’s up to hooking up in some way. But again don’t take her seriously and don’t try to make her your gf. She’s already proven she’s untrustworthy.
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    Unplanned night out...

    What’s wrong with beer pong?
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    What’s with this girl?

    Attention seeker. Why didn’t you fvck her? There had to be a reason. When you didn’t make a move that moment she lost interest. She’s hitting you up because she likes the attention. Whenever she contacts you, set a date and get off the phone. Don’t text all day with women.
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