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It could also mean that she's covertly asking for your help, since you're also a man, in order to strengthen their relationship. She might be in need of your advice, like what can she do to help her man be better... or, that you should be giving advice even if she doesn't ask for advice, because...

I wouldn't refer to "tentative plans" as plans. It would be better as a flexible plan instead - that is, if you have anything else planned for the night aside from the main goal. As for the birthday, it's not the best event for you to be playing her, even if you're invited. More likely it's a...

How'd the night go?

How must it be not universal that a man leads a relationship (for the most part, anyway), or that women are sparsely differentiated in a particular culture such that one is bound to meet some that must be pushed, and some that would rather do a little of the pushing?

It can be an IOI if you play around with it. Where were you out? How easy would it have been to isolate her? These are some aspects you might want to consider in the future.

Except most of them don't understand what graffiti they put, so it becomes vandalism instead of art. Now, it's reflective of the woman.

I learned this site and its forums from Tomassi. How about you? And as an additional question, how do you suppose new guys find their way into this forum?

Shît joke, by the way. You can be more decent about yourself than that.

Yes, I have. Also part of the equation that I forgot to mention is honesty. I had to be honest with myself on where I lack, and it is true that there is room for improvement everywhere, every time. Arrogance fails because the truth is muddled. One is either confused or misaligned with their...

I am not applying only this in my daily life anymore when talking to girls, by the way. (Well, in some cases in life where I have low confidence and experience in general, I work real hard on the tasks and show up for myself even though I do not feel like myself, because I am all that I have and...

I used to be as humble as a doormat. I am humble still (and I am aware of how arrogant that might sound, but I know when I am arrogant and when I am not, and at the very least I do my best to be aware of my own tendencies) but nevertheless, going against my "nature" in these hard times opened up...

Right, it is not a sustainable strategy for long-term goals. It worked for me in the short-term and in the beginning, and I am even more genuine now than I ever believed I could be, as I was aided by this initial step. It's a risky step for the arrogant ones as they end up drowning in their...

Read up on Rian Stone. I believe he agrees on faking it until you're making it. Note that his advice works if you are truly capable of humility. Not humility to become arrogant, not humility as a bragging point, but humility because you are humble, and you are willing to learn more about...

Yeah, you're right. There's your answer. You're wrong. You already stated the difference a sentence ago. It is ultimately your choice whether to continue or not. At least now you know it's not the answer to the "fullness" in life of which you seem to seek.

Everyone says that in the beginning.