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    Getting rapport with people

    NLP works both ways NLP is not just about affecting the mood/state of the person you're talking to, but also yourself. Whilst I agree over-analysing the subject matter will not help (over-analysing anything to do with women will not help), it is worth learning. I can tell you, as an...
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    Getting rapport with people

    "Rules" for rapport don't work well Most of the "Rules" for rapport you have heard are simply a result of observing the behaviour of two people with good rapport. They occur subconciously between the two people, and most of them (especially body-mirroring) are very hard to force without...
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    learn a new language!!!

    Why do you guys worry so much about what language you learn. The most important aspect is that you get to USE it in front of a woman. Speaking a language allows you to exert power over those who cannot understand it, and it is that which makes it attractive. We all have opinions on which...
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    What's in your wardrobe?

    Cut it :D Seriously, hats usually look pretty shyt, so go to a decent hairdresser, and spend a bit. Then you can go to a cheap one and ask them to copy the style. If in doubt, just go short!
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    What's in your wardrobe?

    The best advice I can give is buy clothes that were never in fashion. That way, they'll never go out! Seriously though, thereare many classics that will always be around. That is - dark suits, button-down shirts, jeans (though I hate to admit it), wool trousers, oxford shoes. These say class...
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    What's in your wardrobe?

    I have a philosophy of never dressing down. This is not to say that this is necessarily correct, but what is correct is CONGRUENCY. So be consistent to get yourself a reputation. Shirts: Always button down. T-shirts are for holiday, undershirts and moping around. Brands I use (80% of my...
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    Your Ideal Bachelor Pad.

    I might also point you to a guide I wrote a while ago part 1: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=22903&highlight=bachelor part 2: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=23269&highlight=bachelor
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    Your Ideal Bachelor Pad.

    Yeah, blacklight, UV, same thing. You need to buy jellyfish from a specialist store. Also, because they are quite static, you have to be careful with your tank design. You can't have any corners (they get stuck in them easily), and you have to direct water flow so that the jellyfish move...
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    Your Ideal Bachelor Pad.

    Whilst we're fantasizing about expensive ultra-cool stuff, I'll add some things I've seen in apartments in central London (my friend is a real estate agent). -Fish tank for a wall, between kitchen and lounge. Filled with jellyfish, and with a UV light on the bottom, so the jellyfish glow...
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    The Don Juan Art of War

    It's "translated" from generic military strategy into a seduction guide (and very well translated it is too) The original book is "The Art of War" by Sun Tzu. Get it from amazon.com
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    My Sales principles applied to getting women

    In that case, nicely summed up! :)
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    My Sales principles applied to getting women

    Where did you get this quote from?
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    My Sales principles applied to getting women

    I have recently been promoted to Sales Manager, and have the daunting task of training 30 people to selling our product like I do. I recently boiled down my sales technique to a few principles, and discovered oddly that these principles apply superbly to the field of attracting women. As I'm a...
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    the loneliness on the road to becoming a true dj.

    Great post! I remember going through this phase myself at University. I suddenly forgot about house parties, and starting going abroad on weekends, going to classy bars and doing everything but what I used to do. As you say, most friends don't follow, and it turns out that most of them are...
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    About SpeedDating

    Good Points. I can identify with all the types you mentioned! Since the women will get her pick, ultimate success is not as likely, but it can work. As both of us say, the most important aspect of this is practice. Nothing beats experience. Nothing.
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