Recent content by holycrapman

That's really cool what you do there with your poetry. You have just given me a lot to think about

I appreciate you, man. Thanks a lot for those words. It really helps me understand myself and the situation

As a counselor yourself. Would you consider this whole episode as cheating? I have been struggling with that. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. I mean, the whole thing that happened with this woman.

I hear you. She did not demand it. I did it out of respect because of her excellent behavior as a gf. I thought she deserved it and I actually did not talk to my ex anymore or gave a **** about her so I did not mind

You are just spot on. Thank you

Thank you. The issue was not the picture. It was uncomfortable though. The issue is she re added her "abusive ex" after telling me 2 weeks prior that she felt uncomfortable that I was following my ex (that I followed before meeting her and with which I did not have such a toxic past with). So I...

I remember a girl I had one time that wanted me to beat the crap out of her in the bedroom to punish her acknowledged bad behavior instead of just changing it They are just nuts

Hey just give her some love and **** her good, as a plate. I think she likes you and was explaining herself to you. Just a little check in text with your plates doesn't hurt. They are humans. Being a plate doesn't mean there is no connection. My longest plates were women I genuinely had a great...

Were you paranoid afterwards? It's the hiding part that makes it very difficult for me. What were your results when you worked through it?

I get you. It was a shame with this one because her behavior was absolutely good. For real, something you don't see a lot these days. But that stuff is dangerous because it can make you overlook the facts

Wow what a story man. I am so thankful for having this gut instinct. For real. I'm in my 30's and I have never hit a woman (outside ****). I get you, sometimes they get the best of you and it's a lesson to control our temper and emotions.

Holy crap guys. Thanks for all your answers. All I can say is that breaking up with a women is the biggest aphrodisiac for them, seriously. I haven't taken her back and probably I will not take her back as a gf, however, let me tell you this woman has done and performed the freakiest of the...

Makes total sense what you are saying. She has en excellent relationship with her dad now but her dad was abusive towards the mom, so I guess she grew up seeing that. She was the one that uploaded stuff on IG, I did not because my IG is for my profession and I don't mix both, but you are right...

It's weird though because physically I am covered in tattoos, I lift everyday and my appearance is definitely not the one of a "nice guy". Internally, I gave her the full sex drugs and and roll experience with lots of **** and dirty stuff she supposedly (and I think so due to her behavior ) had...

Even though she held herself accountable with her **** up with me . You are totally right, it's a total red flag that she stayed with this guy for so long