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    Need some advice

    I am looking for some advice on what I should do with this situation. About 4 years ago while working an overnight shift me an my coworker saw a commercial for Ashley Madison. He told me what the site was about and I was amazed that people in my hometown would post their pictures and create a...
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    Most Ashley Madison female accounts are fake

    It is actually a brilliant money making scheme ! I do not know what the fee is for the site but 37 million users desperate for some puss. On another Ashley Madison note.... It is amazing how this is the top story around the world !!???
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    Need some help possible BPD

    I have !!! So far it has worked out better than I expected. I have her blocked on my phone so I have no clue what texts or how many calls she has made. As I get further removed from this situation I am glad I was able to make the break so early. I am hoping she had other guys on the side...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    I have noooooooo Idea where I would be had I continued down this path. I cant imagine if I let myself get sucked in... boot my wife out... think about starting this new life and bam... realize she is insane and my life is in shambles. Thank you everyone ! I am still in wait and...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    Rugby, I agree.... I am a usually emotionally under control, cool, collected and pretty calculating. She had me doing things completely out of character. It is like they find one chink in the armor and move in. I was meeting her at places where me and my wife go and was making out with...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    GS, You are right ! From the start there were no boundaries with this woman! She was relentless with the texting, calling, she would expect me to talk to her while in my house... with my wife sitting there. It was insane ! She wanted me to go to her house while her husband was out...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    I have had no contact with this girl in 2 days. I continue to get text messages that appear to be an attempt at a guilt trip. " Baby, I miss you" " Please let me know you are ok" the usual attempts to get me to re engage. I was talking with my best friend last night. He has never...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    I need to thank everyone that has helped me. I have not been on this board in years and when I met this girl I returned. She came on so strong, so fast, she was hyper sexual, unbelievable... I sensed something was up.. A quick search brought up bpd... All the symptoms for! Had I not been on...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    Thank you GS, I don't enjoy this... I knew something was up when she came on so strong at first... That's when I returned to the forum and started using the Internet to find out what was up! I have never had someone come on that strong, intentionally build a crazy emotional connection and...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    Ok... I have been doing great with the ignoring her/ limited contact. She suckered me in on Thursday. I got a text from her saying she had a talk with her husband... Claims she told him she is sexually frustrated and he's not keeping up with his obligation. She made some comments to him...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    This has been an eye opening experience. I am starting to get worried that there have been no exit strategies posted. Two nights ago I received several text from her which I ignored. She has a pattern... She will text me what I am doing... expect a quick response.... If I don't respond...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    Thank you Tic Tac.... I agree it was horrible on my part. I did not come back to the forum to brag about this like I am a master pua. It was a mistake... I should have manned up and dealt with my own issues. I never went out saying I'm going to jump a married chick. She didn't seem mentally...
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    Need some help possible BPD

    Ok here is what is going on. I have been married for 5 years. Actually married what I believe to be a decent girl. Was never a *****, drama queen, or anything like that. Things sort of got into a rut... since about January we have been grinding at each other. In April of this year...
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    starting to become antisocial... need some advice

    No she really didnt pressure me into spending all my time with her. What did happen is when i did spend time with my friends i would get non stop text messages from her. Also we started to spend alot of time with her group of friends.... going to their parties... going out on friday and saturday...
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    starting to become antisocial... need some advice

    My situation right now is good... ive been dating a girl for almost 2 years now and things are good. My problem though is that it seems like ive lost all of my good friends. Before me and my girlfriend met i enjoyed going out to bars, going to sporting events, socializing and just seeing my...
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