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LOL you're just butt hurt because you think you're alpha lol

Something that has always confused me is dating advice that bad boys and tough men are real alpha males. Be strong and dominant blah blah blah. Every spam email I get about the latest product promising to get you laid and better with women revolves around being alpha. The tough looking...

Hey guys I've been reading through the posts here and a few had me confused. I know many sites advise men that women should only be the icing on the cake, the alpha male doesn't care if the woman likes him, he is happy without a woman and doesn't care for one. I also understand why a...

Hey I wanted to ask you guys your opinion on self esteem and how it relates to being a better person. From the age of 17 to about 23 I really wanted to make friends with a certain group of people, I wanted my friends to be the uber jersey shore party all the time type of guys. I wanted the...

Thanks guys. Just to add to what was said. 1) I understand when you want something from some one they can sense that. So thats why I made it a point to hang with just him alone to see if I got along with him and enjoyed his company. We had a good time, and I tried my best not to come...

There was this guy I met at my previous job, and we seemed to connect. I am 25 years old btw male and straight just FYI. We joked, and he seemed to enjoy my company. After I left the job we didn't keep in touch but then I helped him get a job in the company that I work for and we started...

Something that I've noticed about all self-help in general that it tries to give you confidence and a better mood through the use of repetitive positive concepts to psyche you up into feeling better. However a few hours later your "state" is down in the dumps again. So I ask is it even...

Okay what do I do then? Call or text? I should have just called it would have been easier

Well this friend that I know I asked her for some advice and she told me to say this via text "Hey. i enjoyed meeting you and Im sorry for the Snooki comment the other day. It was my poor attempt at humor. I can't say it was my finest moment. How's your week been going?" All my guy friends...

Yeah in fact I was going to say I was sorry for being a jerk. I was thinking that since I had already messed it up that saying sorry would be the only way I could get on her good graces

So what should I do? Should I wait a few days and just call her and pretend the text never happened?

So wait are you saying I messed up?

I met this girl in my college and we had good rapport and I got her number after the talk. Turns out she works not to far from where I live, and we chatted about things and laughed etc. I find out she is a manager at a tanning salon So a couple of days later I sent her text message Me...

Wow, this post is very eye opening but depressing. I would lose so much respect for a woman if I was able to manipulate her into liking me by ignoring her. I would rather want a woman that would get irritated by me not being upfront in certain aspects rather than being cold one day and hot...

Thank you for your responses guys. So basically then its okay for me to put tons of energy and effort into getting out there and make myself a more social person because I want to find a good woman. Its been more than 1.5 years since I've had a date and I have just sat around and didnt really...