Recent content by GotToGetIt

Scaramouche, I appreciate this. That said, I get the point of 90% of the posts here which is that I am getting played, toyed, used and abused just from her oscillation and ambivalence. Best play is to next it. DO I FEEL THE PULL TO WAIT AND SEE WHAT SHE DOES WHEN SHE RETURNS? YES. I CAN MAN...

Airwarrior, good words my friend. Let me say this: she already knows she will have to come back on 'my terms.' I am incommunicado right now. If she wants to see me she will have to beg to see me. And if and when I feel it is sufficient that she has begged, on my terms, where the f*** I...

Airwarrior, good words my friend. Let me say this: she already knows she will have to come back on 'my terms.' I am incommunicado right now. If she wants to see me she will have to beg to see me. And if and when I feel it is sufficient that she has begged, on my terms, where the f*** I want...

Mr. Me. My apologies for not being clear on the time factor here. I do not for a minute think that any prior time had anything at all to do with it. I just wanted to be clear it was not like I met this chick one night, and was dating her a week later. I may be confused, but I can tell you...

DonS, F***** loved it bro, very good ****.

One thing for sure: I will not be abdicating my role and playing therapist to her. She knows her role was second to mine in the relationship. Everyone that saw us together knew it. Not in a demeaning way, but I always lead, never follow.

I have had LIMITED communication. Yes some, but very limited since this little 'frame tester.'

Just one contextual factor here: It is not like I met this girl cold. I had a class with her a term ago (although we never said anything to each other). Also, prior to securing our first coffee and later dinner dates, there was a lot of FBook messaging banter. So there was some background...

Jophil28, I appreciate your thoughts here. I like to work on that same ground that if she wants to be with me she will find ways to do so. Which means here, she clearly did not want to be with me at the wedding. For whatever dumbass reason. She even mentioned that when I did NOT text her...

As an aside: I think initially she didn't give a f**k about vulnerability b/c there was none. She wanted to have a little romance etc. Why not continue this romance if she wasn't really into me? At least she was getting sex consistently. I can't imagine I lowered her interest that bad, but...

Gentlemen, I appreciate the candid responses. To answer a few queries: a) we are not long distance. b) we did not meet online. Let me be clear: did I get dinged a touch? Sure. Have I re-established frame? Probably on my part yes, now. I was out tonight on the prowl, but yet not forcing what...

Happy new year my fellow DJ's. I do not post often, but lurk often, and what a wealth of information here. I come to you with a request for a little sleuthing. Perhaps you will figure this is a simple case of low interest and poor DJ'ing on my part, and that is fine. I am looking for the...

Anyone with particular experience with born-agains?

Can this be moved back to the mature man forum now that my age has been noted?

Indeed. Let me dream one up. She already didn't allow herself the same night she called telling me she had "prayed on it" noted above...the time will present itself however.