Recent content by Firedweller

Hi guys. My relationship of one year has hit the rocks over the past 3 weeks - arguing constantly, trust issues, disrespect etc Today, me her and a few friends were at a bball game and my buddy's girl got hit on twice within the space of half time - two different guys approached them when...

Before it was annoyingly high, constant attention wanted and given, never disrespectful, stuck to plans etc. A year into the relationship, I can see the trend changing. For the past fortnight, she messages back several hours later, doesn't care if I call at night, and canceled our last two...

Most definitely. Even with a GF who claims she's not into the muscles and looks LOL. Watch her look at you and treat you differently when you lose the fat and become athletic looking. Nothing will make her crave you more than other girls glancing at your arms or starring at your chest. And...

Thought I'd let you all know what happened so we can use these examples to better ourselves hopefully. She rang me today, the day before she was supposed to go away and told me she's no longer going. I just replied, okay. She said I'm not going because I thought about it and it's not right for...

I didn't contact her today and she didn't contact me either. She can be very stubborn and even try to be alpha in these situations lol. I'm in an awkward situation now because I don't want to behave single but at the same time, she's pushing me to do so. She's acting like I am the one who...

On a side note, I actually feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders. I was carrying this burden of trying to force her not to go but I feel like she's showed me what she thinks of my opinion. Because prior to this, I didn't think she'd just go away for a week to who knows where and...

I met up with her and she from the outset was acting extremely immature and upset. She was saying 3 word sentences and not looking at me when I was speaking. After a few minutes of talking she kept begging to go saying she never gets to get out and that I know she never does bad things behind my...

I think I've decided that if she goes, I will cheat on her the whole week she's gone. That way I won't be bitter towards her while she's gone and when she comes back.

The thing is, my GF tries to be controlling and is jealous, even if I go out of town for work she will make at least some comment about why can't my employer send someone else and not me. She expects a high level of respect from me and openness and so do I of her. The reasons why I don't want...

My girlfriend rang me and said she's going away for a week. I said where, she replied I don't know. I asked with who, she said I don't know who's coming. I then asked if you don't know why do you want to go and she said because my college organized it and I want to go away and have fun for a the...

Okay thanks guys. I know that what I did wasn't wrong in any technical sense but like I said, considering it was her 'friend', I know the heat is a little hotter. I'm just going to ignore it all and hope that her friend has enough wits to her to not prove to my girl that she's no real friend of...

I broke up with my girl for a couple of months and during the break up I kissed one of her friend's. Now I'm back with her and I don't think her friend knows yet. I'm unsure if she'd tell my girl if she heard I'm with her. Now I want to be proactive. I know, I was single when I did it but...

I broke NC. I had so much pent up inside as I went from being in a close relationship to ending it on one day from a decision she didn't make on the spot. I stick by that action even though I feel that I may have ended it based on too much emotion rather then letting it sink in for a bit and...

I have unfortunately had three nights of dreams about my ex in a row shortly after seeing her cousin the other day. I had maintained NC for a couple of weeks and it seemed to be getting easier but I feel like I'm losing control now. She is in my head almost 24/7 and now since having dreams...

I didn't reply to her. I ran into a few of her friends over the weekend and I'm in a state where I don't want to see or hear anyone who has anything to do with her.