Recent content by fidel

So, forget about it and just not reply? She got in touch right?

Sorry, if this is the wrong thread, but how does no-contact work in long distance relationships? So my new girlfriend of six months started acting distant when it comes to messaging and all like a week ago, fairly big change in behavior from her. She moved to a different city for a work project...

Where I messed up worse (and what I didn't reveal earlier) was that I called it off with that other girl I dated just after this one sent out feelers again. Thought to myself, that I should try one more time and get this to work before dating someone else. I've not had much luck in Tinder. I've...

My lame/laughable utterly beta story: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-to-deal-with-this-girl-after-no-contact.228260/ Day 1 NC again after all these months but feel this time it's going to be harder. Hope I can drag myself to the gym. Thought I was doing fine with NC earlier...

Last update folks. I do know now. I did ask her out for VD and she said she doesn't feel we have any connection and she's dating another guy in my same apartment complex. I've recently seen them around a lot, especially the last two weeks, and I don't think she's lying or making this up to get...

Tough crowd. Thanks for the replies guys. Appreciate it.

I guess this is the problem I have with her, not with girls in general. I did actually date a girl for a like 2 months in the interim, but it was more out of moving on from her than anything else.

Welcome to the forum!!! Glad you joined. Every advice is useful. This is what I had done, right? I have not initiated contact even once since she turned hostile. It is worse since we live in the same apartment complex. Hence the question all those months ago if I should move out. Well, I'm...

Ask her out then?

It does seem like she wants me to ask her out, but I'm very cautious (overly) to not let her reject me again, and out of that fear, I'm maybe holding back a touch too much. She's behaving close to how she was when we met first (an unmistakeable friendly, confident attitude - it's what attracted...

Ok, some more updates in case some one wishes to reply. I kinda need a little help now. So, after the last update where she stopped talking for 10 days, I continued being aloof and minding my own business. Right enough, 4-5 days later she comes up to talk again. Again casual talk about what's...

Ok, so this is latest update: I took the advice here and started being aloof with this girl. Started working out, I even started dating another girl (didn't work out too well :( ), and was minding my own business. We ran into each other a couple more times in November but kept the conversation...

Thank you so much bradd80. Amazing post.

Fairly unanimous here guys. I did realize a while ago I missed out and have been making an effort to move on. Just wondered if her recent attempts at contact meant anything and if I should contact her more often. Think I'll just have to let this one go. And no, I'm not moving out of the...

Just wanted to post an update to understand how to take things from here. After the last time we spoke in July (tablet discussion), I didn't choose to initiate contact and decided to wait for her to come and talk. She is pretty, confident, stubborn and has guys lining up for her, so a good 3...