Recent content by eternal5

You're projecting. From your posts, you seem very invested in this chick and will have a hard time moving on. Re-read the advice on here given to you and seriously work on moving on. No games.

Ignore

Why bother trying again though...? I don't understand. You tried 7 times already. What makes you think she'll agree to meet you? I'd ghost, or if she's someone you'll still see at work then just keep it short and end whatever convo she initiates.

Could you link me to the thread? Also thank you all for the advice.

LOL nice edit. You're right though. **** her.

This is my gonna be my biggest obstacle. As of now, I have no genuine curiosity. I have no questions to ask myself about people that make me want to learn about or talk to them. I talked to a friend about it who will literally strike up a conversation with anybody and he says he likes digging...

What does this mean? See, I don't even do that. I don't say hi or tell people to have a nice day unless they tell me first lol. It's a good start though and I'll work on it.

This. Just say something to end the convo and leave it how it is. Why keep trying with someone who's not willing to put in the effort in talking with you? She may or may not reach out eventually but by then you'll probably get over her.

I'll reflect on this and do something about it. Appreciate ya boss.

You ****ing wizard.

This has been on my mind a lot recently. I've been thinking it's the first step I should take until I really feel comfortable talking to strangers cause I legit talk to nobody new since I have zero interest and mainly keep to myself. Small openers here and there with no endgame wouldn't hurt...

How does one make approaches automatic? I swear I've had plenty of missed opportunities from jobs, school, gym, friends of friends, and I have no ****ing clue how to make a move. I'm a loner and comfortable being on my own, so I've never felt the need to try to get with someone (unless I...

Wait what. What did I say that makes me seem invested in the outcome? I get what you're saying, but I've decided I'm not going to entertain her any further.

:down: Thanks, I'll ignore and move on.

I'd rather ignore her altogether then. I'd like to think I have a sense of pride and if I tried again, I wouldn't be able to respect myself.