Recent content by Don Gato

I just read this post about fat chicks who want male models here and it brought a question to mind: How does one tactfully and in DJ-fashion reject the advances of a chick he's not interested in? Some friends and I were at a club a couple of months ago when this chick walks up and starts...

yeah, that's the point I was making when I said I think perhaps many AFCs aren't aware of sites such as sosuave. I suspect you were ready for the DJ info, and I'm sure there are many others on the AFC sites that are as well. I was merely suggesting that many AFCs would never believe the...

heh heh...this was me as well a few short years ago. IMHO, going to AFCforum.com and preaching the DJ Bible would unfortunately be an exercise in futility. Back in my ultra AFC days, had someone explained the DJ concepts to me, I would've said they were crazy. I can hear myself now...

I will also be in NYC for a week (including New Year's Eve). I've been there a couple of times before, but with a large group of friends who knew where to go. This time I'll be there alone. Of course I'll be at Times Square on 12/31. I'm gonna attend a couple of Broadway shows and see the...

jbbrain-- Thanks! It was a long and difficult lesson, but I learned it well. I'll never make that mistake again.

There is a definite difference between being a good boyfriend and constantly kissing @ss. I think this site does a fine job of differentiating between the two. In effect, the DJ mindset prepares you to be a good boyfriend. I'll elaborate using my experience as an example. Several years...

Sounds like your ignoring her is getting to her. She's used to you being there and kissing her @ss whenever she wanted. She wants you to be all sad and heartbroken. Now that you've shown her you don't need her, she doesn't like it. So now she's trying to make you jealous by flaunting her new...

Some key points as I see them: She broke up with you and started seeing someone else after saying this. She doesn't consider you to be "that perfect person". Even if you could get her back, why would you want her after knowing her true opinion of you? Beautiful women are a dime a...

I've had good responses to Pinot Grigio. I usually by the Ecco Domani. It's a white wine and inexpensive. I like NewMan's "chilly room" and candles idea. Also, dim the lights a bit if possible. Finally, I'd have a CD with mood-setting music at the ready. This combination of factors has...

Whew! I'm relieved after reading this post. I've been developing the same attitude toward women recently, and thought it was just me. I was beginning to think my newfound knowledge had worked TOO well. I'm definitely a recovering AFC--nice to know this is just part of the process.

I know what you mean. I was a loner/outcast type of guy throughout high school. Never got much play. My being the quintessential AFC definitely didn't help my situation. To make a long story short, I went away to college and came back with an MBA (and a pair of balls, I might add). I own...

Perhaps pulling over wasn't the greatest of ideas, but a person has every right to defend himself. Just be aware of legal ramifications--even when you were attacked first. This happened to me a few months ago. I was at a street festival with my friends, enjoying the music of many bands...