Recent content by defensiveend96

Thanks for the reply, I appreciate it man. I hear a lot about how talking about my problems with other people will help, but I don't really have anyone to talk to. My dad is old fashioned in the "men don't show their feelings" kind of way and even when I try to have a real conversation with him...

Thanks bro. I know I'm being really negative and I do a lot of negative self talk but its hard when I truly just feel like giving up.

Thanks again swayze for the advice. And thanks norwegian for your reply. How can I get in touch with you outside of ss? ( if that comment was directed at me, not sure if you were talking to me or swayze) Some updates... Its late right now so bear with me. Also I appologize for the long rant...

I know. And I really appreciate your advice. But, being honest, this forum tends to throw around the idea that its not all about girls and that you should focus on other things and the girls will come. But what is the real reason we all came here? Why is there only advertisements on this forum...

Hey dudes. Long time. Its late right now and I cant sleep so I thought I would write my thoughts down. i'm being completely honest here and I'm not trying to come off as complaining or whining, I just need to get my thoughts down. Life's been pretty shtty for me. I don't know what is wrong but...

Thanks swayze and NorwegianDJ for the advice. I really appreciate it. Norwegian, you've given me a lot of things to think about. Is it cool if I pm you? I could use some more wise advice. Also in regards to your post, I know I shouldn't think of being in touch with my emotions to being a faggot...

Hey dudes some updates... Workouts going good. I'm taking a little break from lifting. Might go back to the gym tomorrow. I've been doing cardio outside still (biking, playing football with friends, running) and I'm having a lot of fun. Looking leaner this week too which is good. I just got...

Hey thanks to everyone for your replies and advice. Updates... My party went great last night. About 20 people showed up I think. Tons of fun. I got very drunk and high and passed out. Dont remember much, but I did have a lot of fun. My friends said it was great too and we all want to drink...

Thanks for the great advice man. I don't think I'll go with a friend though, knowing my friends I'd probably get ****blocked or they would just stand there looking stupid. Updates.... Invited a bunch of girls to my party and most said they are coming. Did I mention I was having a party before...

Hey dudes... Met a new chick yesterday but it didn't end the way I wanted. I didn't even really approach her. I was in the cafeteria and I went to talk to one of my friends and I didn't even notice the girl. I start telling some stories and jokes to my friend and the whole table starts...

Not much new going on but I felt like writing. Workouts are going great and I'm in the best shape I've ever been. Feels awesome. I need to do better in school but it's hard for me to be motivated. It seems like most of the work we do is mindless busy work and things that won't matter in the...

What works for me when I'm cutting is to drink a massive glass of water before and after my meal. Also caffeine helps me before a workout if I'm hungry. Good luck man.

Thanks again swayze. I think I'm gonna talk to her again, I wanna fuk her and she's single so I might as well go for it. Planning a small party at my place soon. Probably gonna have like 10-20 good friends. I already have a good amount of friends who are coming but I want to get some girls to...

Doc, your a smart kid and judging by what you post you are doing pretty well with girls. Don't let her phuck up your confidence. Look out for number 1 (that's you). Anyway I think you need some closure with this chick. You spend all this time thinking about her and thinking what it would be...

I appreciate your advice swayze. Does it matter that she was showing me signs of very high interest a while ago? Or should I just move on?