Recent content by dax

UPDATE: So I have a few items of hers left at my apartment...and I was going to drop them off at her house... We haven't spoken for like 5 days...But I've seen her where I work because she works out there...and it's been incredibly TENSE...between us....but we haven't talked. I walk...

Seem to have a ****in' problem with oneitis though...just because a chick tells me she ****s me, sucks me, tells me she loves me...and talks about a future....and then I let my guard down....YIKES.... I need help in that department...

I knew that all you senior smooth operators would make fun of me....and talk **** to me...that's ok...I was married for 8 years and am alone now...so I'm back in the game learning as I go...and having fun....and trust me I can pull hot *****es....but I'm using this forum participating....so talk...

In other words...should I initiate **** right now? For example I thought about calling her tonight and telling her I'm in town and tell her I can swing by drop her digital camera off.... That would give me a chance....in..ya know? Or I could let her see me with the new hot broad at the...

In other words we had great chemistry

Need practical advice on tactics to let her know that I'm still the man....and not the love-sick chump...that she ALMOST reduced me too, but didn't QUITE get me too I hope....or maybe she did chump me out....but she's not letting me know much.....but still would like to be friends or...

Her interest level at the moment seems to be 0....but she does have an interest in being seen with other men in front of me...and she does have in interest in making it know "she has a I don't give a **** attititude"! Are you catchin me here.....

OK...guys...I already know I've made mistakes, but I'm learning everyday...and having fun every minute of it...so I'm asking for practical suggestions for dealing with a certain broad...tactics is what I need for dealing with her...would like to keep her as a ****-toy...if nothing else...

Well guys, I NEXTED her....take care and good night... DAX

The guy is pretty much a ****head from what I've heard and what she's said and the pictures she painted, sometimes but rarely they can see eye to eye...(he does have lots of money)...however they are going through some bitter stuff right now...it seems they were married for 10 years and divorced...

I still haven't called her yet...(how do you back off anymore than that)...should I just accept her apology...which I would like to do...and then tell her I need some space?

UPDATE: Last night ...I had made up my mind to not worry about this stuff...and to go out with my friend and have a great New Year's...well she kept callin my phone and leavin' messages of her and her girlfriends screamin' havin' a great time....blah blah blah...as if she was makin a point...

Honestly, I'm not so sure...she has talked about a future, but then catches herself and she always says the reality is we may even not be together....she has always, taken it slow....because she is so scared to make another mistake...she was embarrassed about the last one...and said she learned...

anybody else want to weigh in??

OK...geesh...this kind of sucks, I have been dating a divorced mom of three recently....and she has been really really good to me the past 3 months, she has gone way out of her way so many times it's rediculous, cooks, does my laundry, ....etc. etc. Sex has been awesome...we've had fun...