Recent content by davejn1

Actually, I thought girls were attracted to personality and character traits like confidence, sense of humor, and so forth. I've seen some unattractive guys with hot girls. Why is that the case if girls were attracted primarily to looks?

QUOTE]Well, actually they are. As soon as you come to realize this, you'll start to save yourself a lot of wasted energy and time on a girl that just can't stand the thought of having sex with you. Actually, I thought girls were attracted to personality and character traits like confidence...

Oh yeah, I never said anything about staying too long on the phone either. I actually keep the conversations brief and to the point. I get in and get out.

There's nothing wrong with a little conservatism. There are conservative women out there (I've met some myself). Besides, I never said I was "too" conservative. I'm actually just midstream or more moderate. Besides, that's part of who I am.

I forgot to add that I figured that if a girl doesn't like me for who I am, then I'm better off without her. A lot of people these days tend to like people for what they have, not for whom they are. Someone once pointed that out to me.

I'll check out Pook's anti-dump machine. What negative points are you referring to? you're absolutely right because I am who I am.

Cool signature at the end. I've been working on the girlfriend thing, but I have to keep on fishing. The more I fish, the more likely I'll get a good catch. Do you have any examples of what I can do? This does help a little. Thanks again for replying.

Hi, Just saw the nice guys vs. jerks webpage... so I'm pretty new here to the Don Juan Forum. I pretty much have been reading the same tips I've been learning elsewhere. (e.g. confidence, anticipation, unpredictability, and so forth). I've pretty much have been working on that because I'm...