Recent content by ColdNight

34? Her clock has been ticking recently. She wants big strong young man to give her children quickly (after 35, the birth defect rate goes shooting up). I'd run. Quickly.

I talked it over with one of my friends today, and he held that exact same opinion. Most people on this board tend to disagree though...

Depends. How old are you guys?

I'm...profoundly pissed off. I thought I was a good judge of IL. Hmm. I dunno. She saw me today and said "Hey". I didn't stop though. I was too busy. I expect that she'll probably text again tonight. So I suppose that means I'll reply tomorrow. If she's stringing me out for the day (as she...

I hate to say it. But my gut feeling is that you're right (though mind keeps rationalising). The text pickup (however weak it may have been) was a test. She failed. She has no romantic interest. The AFC thing to do would be to hang onto her "confirmation" and then go on the friendship...

Lads. Honestly. Can I turn this around or not? If not, I'm cancelling. I have enough friends.

Right. I get the point. Damage control. Should I cancel altogether since I'd have "better luck with the waitress"? My thoughts were that since she doesn't know me that well, and has just had a rough break-up (didn't mention that in post), she may be hesitant in doing anything with...

Just when I thought I had women figured out, they manage to confuse me...once again. A girl. We've chatted a few times, but for very limited periods. The last chat went quite well. I got her laughing, made fun of her etc. I got her number last week (she gave it to me without hesitation and...

I second that. It is a strange world.

Quite a few discussions going on here. My take is that PROVIDING she meets your baseline requirements for looks (as in, is able to jostle your crotch) then you judge purely on personality after that. Also, it is true that women become more attractive as you get to know them - and those...

This was about a girl, but hey, great general advice anyway Stevie!

Alright lads. Some great advice. I'm going to go for it (continue the flirting) and see what happens. I'll see how things progress, while keeping other options open. I'll keep you posted. :P

To me, there are two types of girls - those that are attracted to me from their initial impression of me just being me (****y, funny, confident etc). This is after a small amount of one on one social interaction. The other group, mainly the HBs that have blokes falling all over them and...

A big mistake I used to make. Leave him out. No exceptions. If she talks about him at all then it's bad news. Judge girls on their actions, not words.

Lay back and relax. Act indifferent about the situation. If you show that you're bothered about it you'll only make things worse and prolong her alleged "break up" with her boyfriend. Of course, she could be feeding you a pack of lies. Or, she might not. Either way, acting differently just...