Recent content by chocococonut

Has anyone ever tried quitting alcohol for an extended period of time and noticed improvements in approaching women? such as, less anxiety, more confidence..? i know that alcohol temporariliy reduces anxiety and inhibitions, but in the long-run, it causes more anxiety than it resolves. i...

went NC on my first GF 2 months ago. she texts me after the 2 months and we have a pretty deep conversation. went NC on my second GF not too long ago. we start hooking up again and she still wants to be with me. i get to keep her on the side. magic.

damn, Phillipe. u mad bro.

17. been trying to improve my game since getting out of my most recent LTR of 1 year. slept with 2 women since the break-up 4 months ago. one still comes around cuz i have a good FWB set-up with her and one had a falling out when too much emotion got involved... have had 2 serious gf's, each...

obviously it's the fact that her interest level in you is not at a point where she would respond right away or even too soon. wait longer than she did so it seems like you are just as busy as she is. otherwise, she will think you are way too available/interested and HER interest level will...

I was in a similar predicament about a few weeks ago...but i was getting lots of poon. This girl and I agreed to hook up, both start developing feelings, we try to take things in another direction. later, i found out she's been going out on dates with other dudes afterthefact, still talks to...

How do u deal with mixed signals? i am player, but really into this one girl (GIRL A) i met. i still maintain relationship with one of my f-buddies, but i really like GIRL A. GIRL A just got outta serious 3 yr relationship and doesn't want anything serious. i say okay lets just casually "get...

I couldn't agree with you more. Hot women are so used to being bossy, b**chy, cold, distant that they don't really know how to treat the man they want to be with. I had an ex girlfriend who was super hot and she always acted extremely clingy, needy, cried a lot, and was extremely insecure. I...

There is a direct relationship between how hot a girl is and how crazy she can be. Hot girls tend to have a lot more experience from AFCs approaching them and have learned how to deflect. As a result, they become so absorbed into this lifestyle that this is how they treat EVERY man. They bag on...

I am recently graduated from the college scene and have since been gaming in real life. its a lot tougher and much more difficult in college, but I have been able to reflect on how i was in college as to how I am now and I'd like to hopefully enlighten you in a similar way as if I were traveling...

To begin with, I want to make some assumptions: None of them know about eachother. They all believe that you are "the one" guy ( as that is what most normal girls look for, the one) , especially if they believe they are in a relationship with you. Also, you must be at a crossroad where...

LOoks to me like you were afraid to take the alpha route...which was to TAKE THE RISK, risk losing her, push her away a little bit...When I find myself at this crossroad with a girl i am sincerely interested in, ill be honest, it IS hard to find it in yourself to do it...You tell yourself, damn...

terrible idea. comes off as needy and clingy and will only lower your attractiveness to her. That is not reverse psychology at all. If you want someone who is used to getting a lot of attention from guys, being the center of every little social gathering, getting a ridiculous amounts of stares...

Dude, she broke it off with you. Stop being a wuss. it's over. If she contacts you first, then maybe there is hope. You breaking the NC first can show you are lonely, insecure, needy, clingy, depressed, or anything similar of these negative feelings. You will actually lower her...

i have been in a similar situation. Play it out. Hang out with her and see how far it goes. If you can have your way with her, great! If you fall for her, you're going to get burned. This is a very treacherous path you are taking. I also been down this path, and frankly, some girls will just not...