Recent content by CheekyMonkey101

A lot of men have no chick finding them attractive. Dating apps are showing men's true ratings and making them face reality.

What would you say most men need to do in order to be successful?

How many men generally do you think have that option?

Oh I know. Unfortunately most men will never get to experience raw attraction.

They've been on first dates with women who told them directly that they don't have a connection/spark. This is what they told me. They figured no women would want them after this, I guess.

I often just message them to say I get the feeling they're not interested and then wish them well as I won't be continuing. They sometimes are surprised and say they're not or just wish me well. The point is that I'm not going to waste my time chasing after women or trying to convince them to...

I delete the chat/number at the very first sign of disinterest.

They are the sexual choosers and men have higher libidos and most have have to take what they can get.

Yeah, you win some and you lose some. Luckily I have others lined up, but it's still disappointing. Particularly if she was hot

Which just shows that an abundance mindset is meaningless.

Lesson learned on the sofa bit. I do care in the sense that I was disappointed I didn't get to smash, but I don't see her as potential gf more as potential FWB. I also didn't respond because there was nothing to add.

Abundance isn't reality. I've luckily currently got hundreds of likes and matches on Tinder and Hinge and have arranged several meetups this week so my reality has somewhat of abundance as I know I can replace one girl with another if it goes wrong. But this success isn't down to my mindset...

Yeah, I didn't act angry and annoyed and I just accepted it for what it is. I've now just given her space to reach out but she at least reached out and apologised after. I've done my bit.

I know a few guys who have never approached or asked a woman out in person as they know it's a guaranteed rejection.

She sent the last message last night saying "Thanks x" after I wished her brother well, anyway. I didn't respond. I'll just wait it out and see other girls. I'm happy with FWB as well, but this was disappointing as I thought I had it in the bag.