Recent content by change11

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Man stop smoking before you can buy cigs yourself. Guarantee you'll get hooked for real. Kind of sucks, but at 17 I bet you have no clue what's really involved in getting your own place. Yes, it's a hell of a lot better then living with your parents but theres also a lot of...

That's not entirely to blame on the OS. Dell, HP...any of those companies load a lot of their own crap to the machines. A lot of those programs cause people problem. Then factor in people going online, click yes when they don't understand what they're doing....leads to a very bloated computer...

Hehe, when are you guys planning on upgrading XP? My job is still using XP too, don't intend to upgrade our desktops to 7 for some time still. Too much of a learning curve, our users aren't very comfortable on computers and the completely different theme of 7 would be too much for them! Though...

Man, do what you want to do, regardless of what happens it will at least be good experience and you will (hopefully) learn from it. This sounds to me like you're trying to justify it. I'm not insulting you, I did same thing for a long time. Someone responded to a post of mine a while back and...

Is this really even worth it? Say he does "lay down the law", how is he ever going to KNOW that she isn't just going to be talking to this ex behind his back? She may comply right away, cry, apologize, then next week continue talking but be more careful doing it. Or, she's going to have her...

It may be legitimate. They may be "just friends". She may be f*cking him right now. She may have no attraction to him right now but something could spark again in the future. But you will never know 100%. Point is you will always wonder about this and it will get worse. Anytime something shady...

Get help. Skip the anger management meetings, mostly people who are FORCED to be there (by the court system, divorce court, whatever). Try to understand your anger more, keep an anger journal. Write your thoughts/moods down constantly. Especially when you "blow up". Then a few days later read...

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This is my exact problem with my current girlfriend. Slowly bit by bit the truth came out. Lots of family problems while growing. Drank all the time (literally, ALL the time, before/during/after school, etc). Everyone in her part of the state is like this. Everyones parents are alcoholics, etc...

Interesting I'll give it a try. Would you care to share any other tips you have? Been working on myself a lot lately and I've found that as a child I (and my parents) never learned to truly deal with issues. I always try to ignore them and push them out of my mind. So they never get resolved...

Espi, Ya definitly will need to find some more plates now! I don't have very much experience with women, as friends or sexually. I'm wondering to myself, if after I sleep with X amount of women that my whole mindset will shift. I think it will. I think it would be beneficial to me to get to...

Rearranged the meet to last night.... WOW....not an entirely negative experience, I'm going to right a reflection on this experience. Story: So I get to the place. I hadn't seen this woman in almost a month and when I did see her it was VERY brief. Well, she wasn't nearly as attractive...

I told her.."Meet me at the beach at 6:30, we'll grab a couple drinks at one of the bars along the beach then when the sun starts to set we can go explore the beach".

She is not my boss, there is no situation where I would ever have to answer to her. My involvement with her at work is rare and only involves telling her when something is fixed. That said, I do realize co-workers could be a problem down the road. I've decided that I want this experience so I'm...