Recent content by casperian1980

I really need your guys advice on this one. So I went on a couple dates with this chick and things seemed to be going well. After our second date, she texted me saying she had a great time etc. I replied that I was busy but would call her later in the week. I called her five days later and she...

I don't have an answer for you, but I can relate to your plight. I am tall and women generally consider me good looking, but I still can't cold approach a woman in public. It's like I have this internal narrative that says "you're not the type of guy that does this sort of thing...you're not...

Okay...so I'm being a chump for always paying...I can now admit that. I feel like I'm being a "man" when I grab the check and say something like "I got this" but in reality I'm being a "Nice Guy" which is a huge turn off. On one of these dates, the chick suggested that we go to some fancy...

I always pay for dates. In fact, since new years day, I've spent well over 200 bucks on four different dates with women...none of which panned out. I guess a fear of mine is appearing cheap. I personally think cheapness is a real turn off and don't want to give off that impression. Once a...

LOL...I love it. I'm going to try this.

You guys are awesome - thank you for taking the time to reply. It's funny, the rejection stung for a few hours and I was hanging my head low, but I'm already over it. Like you say, it was out of my control. But it never ceases to amaze me how fast a woman can go from hot to ice cold!

Okay this is the first time I've ever asked for dating advice online, but really need some feedback on how I screwed this one up. I met this girl online and, for a first date, I took her to a bar to hear live music. I wouldn't normally take a girl to a bar for a first date but she mentioned that...