Recent content by bukowski_merit

To me - It would depend on the reason for the lack of happiness. If it's a lack of attraction - there's no resolve for that. There's no reason either side should want to resolve that. And I think most relationships end because of lack of attraction. Externally, other issues may arise (and...

Not sure what the point of this post is. Men and Women should both leave relationships they're unhappy with; regardless of the investment they've made in time. Also, how people appear on social media sites is in no way reflective of how they are in reality.

This is what you're in for:

For 5-6 years of my life it was very normal for me to sleep with at least 1 new woman a week; there was some summer weekends where I'd rent a hotel room for the weekend and have a rotation of women coming to meet me (i was using online dating when it was being frowned on by most pua people; and...

Where do you want to go with this girl? Back when I was in my "fvck a different woman a week" phase - something like this would have had me running (hell, her struggling to orgasm through penetration would have turned me off). Because it was all about the sex; and any woman sending me stuff like...

For 7 years of my life (when i was single) - i lived slightly above the poverty line. Drove a POS car. Lived in a small house that was a slight upgrade over a shack. Had more invested in the liquor in my kitchen than I had savings in a bank account. And my life (outside of ****ing women) was...

Just to clarify. I lived in the "country" during my time doing OLD. However, I was about a hour from 2 different cities (Baltimore and Philadelphia) and was about 5 minutes from a major college campus. So while I did live down a long dirt road, and in what basically looked like a shack - the #...

This is the process of things. But does not mean you can treat her with respect after she's disrespected you. If you want a short break - you don't have to verbalize it. Just do it. Would have probably helped things. Friends with benefits cannot be consistent. Are rarely honest. And never...

If this girl is a party girl (and she sounds like it) then it's not uncommon for them to feel resistance and anxiety when it seems like someone is developing feelings or a desire for a relationship with them. There's no doubt you came off this way to her; as well as needy. This is not...

Yes to the title topic... But, sexless relationships don't normally have much to do with the quality of sex; as much as it does the quality of the relationship. Back in my "I only date girls who are taken" days - it wasn't uncommon to hear a woman say they were cheating because their boyfriend...

Over the last 5 years - I've had similar things happen from time to time. Maybe 10 times total. It's not all that rare. In my case - it tends to happen with FWBs. The few times it happened with women the first time we were together - well; that spelled the end of that. Nothing we can really...

Back in the day - sosuave was infected with Indian/Asian race trolls. AKA: Endless "I can't get women because I'm [one of those two races]" threads. I welcomed it when they said threads like that would not be allowed anymore. As far as racial discussions in general - they are in the same...

She's controlling the frame at every point. She's making the decisions. She's push-pulling. She's just working off the jumbled madness in her head.. so you get madness. Don't be confused by it. It's kind of what happens when you let her lead every step of the way. Only respect a woman's...

There was a pretty common mantra around alt.seduction back in the day. It was basically "For the best sex - find a woman with LSE (low self esteem) and HSD (high sex drive). They will be crazy and undateable; but they will be the best candidates for ONS or FWB". The thing is Low-Self Esteem...

I like 0 of OPs advice on how to interact with women on Tinder. But... http://www.bluestacks.com/ Should be able to get you on tinder from your laptop. I use it for a couple of games I play on my cell phone when I am on my computer. Pretty sure it works for apps.