Recent content by Bougner

If she didn't cheat, she definitely broke things off to pursue her ex again. It's no coincidence that he bumped in to her two weeks before she dumps me out of the blue, messaged her and tried to add her on social media the week leading up to her dumping, and then two weeks after dumping me she's...

Hahaha I haven't had to buy much in terms of groceries over the past two weeks!

100% agree A couple weeks later and I honestly don't really care. I'm glad I know why she bailed, and I'm somewhat relieved it's him she went back to. She'll get ****ed over again like she did every other time she was with him and she'll be right back where she was when I came along. I on the...

I completely agree. They were on again off again for 18 months. It was so dysfunctional, but that's what she grew up with. He actually reminds me of her father so I wouldn't be surprised if she has a lot of daddy issues. No chance I take her back. If she knows what's good for her she won't...

I thought I'd provide a quick update on this case. I found out this weekend that my ex did leave me and return to her ex boyfriend. Everything she said during our breakup was pretty much a cover for this as I suspected. Goes to show how emotionally unstable and weak she is to return to a guy...

I honestly don't know. I haven't figured that part out yet. Like I've said, this is the first time I've been dumped so it's a little different this time around. I also don't like that I didn't see it coming. Losing control of the situation is definitely a part of it. With each passing day I seem...

Her best friend works with me. Since she left, when I've been around her friend at work I've acted normal, happy, joking around, as if nothing bothered me with the breakup.

That's pretty much what I've been portraying since she left to her friends. It was the initial shock that knocked me on my ass. Not seeing it coming. I'm usually so good at reading people and situations.

I agree that this was a possibility, others thought so too. I just find it extremely unlikely at this point. It seems a little unrealistic that she would stage all of this while also telling her family and friends she is breaking up with me. That would cause them stress and mixed emotions...

I get what you're saying. I did plan things though, not nearly on the same scale she did but there were reasons for that. She has a very large circle of friends and her family is huge. Virtually every weekend she was off she had things planned with other people and she would usually make these...

All of her **** is gone. I've blocked her number, deleted it, and blocked all her social media accounts. I still don't expect to here from her, but what you say is possible. Get this, a month before she did this she wanted to withdraw her entire work pension and put it towards a house. She even...

Sorry to hear that **** happened to you, but it is good to hear there is light at the end of the tunnel. I've already come to the realization that she wasn't the one for me. I'm genuinely relieved this happened now and not later down the road when things get even deeper and more complex. You...

Thanks to everyone for their replies and opinions. It has been helpful and it has allowed me to filter through everything and try to gain some understanding as to what happened. I do not believe she did this hoping to force a proposal. It's possible she did it hoping I would pursue her or fight...

I seriously hope not but it is a distinct possibility. All of her previous relationships have been on, off, on, off. Watch is long gone as well. Like I said, all lose ends I tied up after she was dragging her feet the couple days after the break.

LOL thanks for the laugh Julian. I do agree with some of what you said. I've come to find that women with insecurity issues, low self-esteem and self image issues are more into being treated the way you and others describe. I've dated other women with these types of problems and they're pretty...