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    What's the maximum n-count you would consider in a woman for a serious LTR?

    As a college student, it feels that all the girls in my age group are shallow and bounce around from guy to guy. This is good for me, as it makes it easier to spin plates, have one night stands, and practice abundance mentality. However, it makes me discouraged to any idea of a serious LTR down...
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    Accessible hobbies in college?

    I'm a freshman in college (almost a sophomore now), and I realized I don't have many hobbies. I spend most of my time working on classwork or going to the gym. This has paid off so far, as I have a 4.0 in electrical engineering and am in decent shape. There are a lot of things I'd like to learn...
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    How to stop using alcohol as a crutch at parties?

    I'm in college and usually get drunk when I go out to parties (at least twice a week). When I do drink, I have no problem opening up anyone, having a great time, and always end up with a girl at the end of the night. However, when I don't drink, I always feel like my social interactions don't go...
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    How should I respond when my "ex" asks me if I've been with anyone since we've "broken up"?

    I dated this girl (we're both 18) for several months during, starting all the way back in January/February. We had a great relationship, and she was very good LTR material (strong father figure, good upbringing, smart, pretty, trustworthy, submissive, was a virgin, etc.). HSShe's been hopelessly...
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    Are you improving yourselves because you want to?

    Well for a lot of people, self-improvement and getting more attention from women go hand-in-hand.
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    Frame and your reality

    Great post. OP, how much do you think NLP has influenced your game and in what ways? I've always been interested in learning, but haven't gotten around to reading the NLP book I bought yet.
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    Banging My Ex, Is This A Bad Idea?

    I'd say stay with her only as long as you're ****ing other girls on the side too. That way you won't really care much about your situation with her. If she's the only one you're currently with, then break it off as it only seems like it'll end in disaster.
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    Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away. Should we just break up?

    Honestly I think I'm leaning towards this but I'm having trouble dealing with the morals of it and dismissing the good advice on here saying to breakup. Last time I cheated I didn't feel that guilty, but after seeing her devastated by it after I'm not sure how I would feel if I did again...
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    Me and 7 month LTR are going to colleges 1000 miles away. Should we just break up?

    We're both 18. The only reason I’m considering not breaking up with her is that she fits all the my criteria for an ideal LTR. She’s a great person, very smart, easy to get along with, respects me as her alpha and is hopelessly in love with me, fulfills me sexually, and I’m her only sexual...
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    fvck it, how can a dude become an escort?

    Male strippers do get hired for bachelorette parties though
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    Is Big Sean a DJ

    Didn't Ariana cheat on Big Sean with the Weeknd? But other than that (if it's true), I would agree. Play No Games is a pretty good example of him being a DJ
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    Why do you guys want to get married?

    I want to get married eventually so that I can raise kids in a healthy environment. That doesn't make me weak minded, co-dependent or insecure.
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    Virgin gf uncomfortable with sex

    Just wanted to update this thread since you guys helped me out a lot. She actually started blowing me three days after I made this thread. We had just got to her place after an EDM concert, and I was spending the night there. We started making out in her bed, and I went to eat her out (this...
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    Girlfriend offers to reschedule date twice leading up to it, both times suggesting...

    Girlfriend offers to reschedule date twice leading up to it, both times suggesting a morning/afternoon date than a night one. Been dating this girl since February, took her virginity (after a while of her being hesitant. She grew up in a very sheltered and strict household. i.e. her parents...
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    Being emotional and using drama to get girls hooked? Anyone ever try this?

    I was reading this guide (http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/become-boss/17180-sociopath-sociopath-simple-guide-why-drama-works-why-you-need-embrace.html) on the Simple Pickup forums where this guy talks about being emotional to get girls hooked. Some heavy push/pull stuff to manipulate girls...
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