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Recent content by Barrister

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    Interesting Cold Approach over the weekend

    You hit the nail on the head. When you don't care what happens you're essentially in the zone. Women can sense this and it makes the man magnetic. Thanks for the enjoyable read.
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    You aren't indifferent at all though. You came and posted about it here to us so she obviously is important to you. If your no contact has truly made her realize she made a mistake and rekindled things for you then great. I would be careful though about her giving you "just enough" to keep you...
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    Again, she is trying to lure you in to being an orbiter. This type of dialogue will continue for months if you let it. In the meantime, she will be going out and hooking up with other dudes while talking to you about your "fairytale" with her. Not to mention the more you talk to her the harder...
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    Simple - she wants to keep you as an orbiter hoping you will respond and get wrapped up in pointless back and forth that will only give her validation. Don't give in to it. Maintain NC and keep up with the "on to the next."
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    There’s very little difference, if any, between responding “ok” to a text breaking up with you after 7 months vis a vis simply not responding at all. Certainly one is not “being a man” while the other is not. Nor does one connote being butthurt anymore than the other. And to be clear - I am not...
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    Not sure what all the fuss is about with OP “needing to put the ball back in her court” in this thread in regards to a final text. Simply going NC after her texts would have been more than okay to do. It would have been exactly what she deserved given a breakup via text. Disagree it would have...
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    Threw out my LTR of 1.5 years the other night

    Thanks for the replies, fellas. The stuff about her projecting onto me her own cheating (or maybe at least crossing lines into being inappropriate) is a little concerning to me. I think I am just going to pull way back at this point and see how it plays out. It has worked in the past to get her...
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    Threw out my LTR of 1.5 years the other night

    To answer some questions - the issue with my best friend is a tough one. I love the guy like a brother. He hasn’t really come out of the closet recently but he has a guy “friend” suddenly while at the same time has gotten hyper-religious. During the fight I was told I had abandoned and “shunned”...
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    Threw out my LTR of 1.5 years the other night

    To be clear, things have been a little rocky for awhile due to extraneous issues. But we were getting ready to go to bed at my home the other night. I had previously moved her toothbrush from one cabinet in my bathroom to another cabinet. She opened the cabinet and saw that her toothbrush was no...
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    Best indicator of interest level: Compliance or Initiation?

    Easily compliance in my opinion. Initiation? I suppose that depends on what you mean by that since it can be pretty subjective. Some other posters have already pointed out that a woman can tell you she wants you without truly "initiating" anything. Body language, eye contact, etc. All you have...
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    MGTOW is the only way to go

    First, there are only two states that still employ a "common law" marriage to legally unmarried persons. I think it is like Montana and Nevada or some other random states. You say you live in Canada and I am unfamiliar with a jurisdiction which applies it up there. But truth be told "common law"...
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    49 year old cougar HB9 invited me on day trip with her friends to Tampa!

    She was wearing heels!? That's a sign.
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    I think my girlfriend is breaking up with me?

    I am probably just beating a dead horse at this point but I literally just saw this thread. OP, I can't believe you are going to cause me to do this but I have to side with the chick in this case. What I find fascinating about your OP is that the woman here has masculine qualities and you come...
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    49 year old cougar HB9 invited me on day trip with her friends to Tampa!

    Probably wouldn't care if you took them out and gave them a good time. Money is much less important in the dating world than a lot men think.
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