Recent content by Avocadow

I would give her a chance to comply to a relationship that suits OP better. Or make female friends present and see how she responds as others have suggested. She could behave like that even if she had no feelings for the guy as is attention/ connection for her and she might think OP is...

Sounds right thank you. Bit tricky during these festivities but will slow my interest down.

I have had situations when my gut feeling was correct although never before in that context. He acts politely although never initiates conversation with me. Their connection felt effortless and happy by comparison.

What do you do if you perceive there is sexual tension between woman you are dating and her male flatmate? How do you know that is the case or just own fears projecting ?

In a way it seems to be like we would feel about male leaders that we pick. If a boss, mentor or political leader you look up to was to break down and show sadness, powerlessness we might feels sorry for them but lose respect? mid that makes sense women have feelings for us as long as we can...

We were together 9 months meeting every 3 weeks on average. I would honestly say her interest was high for the first 6-7 months. Only last month was low/ colder which was the time she felt sick ( and this I believe was true). However she also started seeing me differently and told herself a...

I hear you Mikey and understand. We had planned to meet twice a month before lockdown happened. It was possible at the time and also the idea of me relocating in the future. She said not worth it now as no plans to travel anytime near. I understand this was rationalisation of her loss of...

Thanks Bcude, I appreciate your perspective which broadens the one I had, makes it easier to make sense. The chemistry was good, just not high as in moments were there was coldness ...not deep connection, but mostly good. Her health issues were real as later she became ill, however she used...

Thanks for your thoughts. Do you say the ending was already on the cards because I prob messed up before or because chemistry was just not high enough? Im thinking prob both, when I noticed chemistry not that great I could have pulled back a bit instead I grew more attached. However I did...

The answers are very good. I will add this: look at your depression as a part within yourself among many other parts. A part of you that has been defeated and dissapointed. During depression we need to force our discipline and purpose-riden parts. But also an inner attitude of compassion...

Outcomes you experience reveal back to you whether or not you are centred in your masculine energy, positively engaging with purpose and self-validating. Success with women is one of the best indicators for this, women mirror back whether we are or aren't doing the above. When things go sour...

Thank you Lynx. I have been able to identify what happened. After last meeting in person I overpursued. Due to not feeling well and lockdown I lost my center and confidence. She had been telling me to slow down and rest, she was referring to my health but now I see she was referring also to my...

Joining today as first day after being dumped. 9 month LDR where we would travel to see each/other every 2/3 weeks. It started with me being appreciative but outcome indifferent, but she showed HI for the first 3//4 months telling me she was falling for me at the end of 4th month. When I...

Finishing to watch the 2018 one and getting lots of value from it :-)

Thank you for all the thoughful responses, really valuable and will be re reading it.