Recent content by Avidus

I like this response man. I like all the responses above. I think there is a good balance to strike. I know what to do. And, I think I have always known what to do, I've just been letting myself fall into the trap of breaking frame and putting my satisfaction in her and not my own goals and...

Hey fam. So I have spent the last year drastically improving my game. I have come along ways and I feel confident to say I know what Im looking for in terms of when a girl is actually special and when she is just another basic chick that I'm looking to ****. I say that, because my feelings...

She just messaged me, which was a surprise, lol. I imagine there will be a fourth date now - hopefully. Im gonna give time before I respond. Can you tell me more about gradually fixing this frame? Would it just be best to let things flow this time, not push for anything, maybe even keep touching...

Bruh, this woman is a lot of things I would want. She is ambitious, hungry for personal growth, loves to read and be adventurous; she is crazy beautiful, and a tad goofy. She is pretty great, but you are shattering my mind right now because I've been told over and over not to settle down, to...

I hear you, but this last night, I was definitely more flirtatious. Would like to hear how you approach it, how you can even flirt with a girl without at least getting to know something about her lol

How can I build a stronger frame? For this girl, and with other women going forward? I have read Rational Male - even took notes, but maybe there are pieces I have overlooked or am missing, if yall can shed light

Well, right now, I am persistent in not committing to a relationship. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't want fwb or anything. After reading all these different responses, I dont know where to go from here. How do I shift frame? backing off and letting her come text me first, right? You all are...

I love that, yeah I’m always trying to perfect the things I’m **** at or the things that scare me. If you don’t have at least two butterflies in your stomach, are you living?

Well, I’m not proud of this but, three of these four girls are from dating apps, the other one goes to med school with me. I’m not proud because I need to nutt up, go to clubs or wherever and start initiating conversation with girls in person more often. I definitely use apps as a defense from...

Bless up, I greatly appreciate this breakdown. Yes, I will let her initiate the fourth date and initiate the next message. I guess for the record, I do have other plates spinning. I have a date tomorrow, another Friday, and a fourth date Sunday with another girl with high IL. I'm going over to...

Appreciate the blunt feedback. **** sucks, especially starting out cus I'm finally getting so ****ing close, but no cigar. Turns my stomach a bit. But I know I must be patient and keep improving, and ill get there. I'll let this girl contact me if she wants to see me again. If you or...

Well, you got any pointers?

Sounds good, how do I avoid these situations. I feel like I find myself getting to these scenarios where I am making out intensely with these girls, but not having sex. How do I set myself up as more of a sexual prospect instead of the good LTR guy

So, I'm relatively new to the game and am just now starting to get with girls I have wanted to get with for a long ass time. I had a third date with this chick yesterday; we got physical, I tried to move things toward sex, and she told me to be patient, not tonight. So I say, "it's ok, no...