Recent content by attraxion

So guys, there are some updates. Mentally, I am much better, have started spinning a couple other plates. Went to a local meetup party and did 2 #closes, am trying to game them. This girl is all over the ex boyfriend, sending him love messages day and night, but he is rejecting her, pointing...

Guys, I just have one problem - I cannot stop looking at her email, and these days (sure enough like you guys said) she is sending a lot of love messages to the ex. Moment I see those, my mind goes ****ing haywire and I feel like calling her out and all that stupid ****.. Ideas? Please don't...

Message received, zero distortion.. Thanks a lot, Master DJs! I'm gonna have little to no contact this month, and totally reframe our "relationship" with me being the prize and never giving her any exclusivity. Better pvssies, here I come! Will keep you guys updated. Thanks again!

Woah! Those are some good, detailed replies.. thanks a ton! I realize I've been acting AFC for some time now. I never realized how it came about. At the time when she said "I am in love with someone else" I was totally in the FB mindset, and I acted like that. Somewhere down the line I...

Update: One of the 'love quotations' she put up on facebook last night, she sends in an email to the ex. And I thought (since it was coupled with my favorite song) that it was for me. This girl seems to be emotionally unhealthy, she cannot decide if her life depended on it. I'm thinking of...

Continued thanks, guys.. So it's like this, tiguere Thursday I start NC for at least 5 days, or until she contacts me, whichever is later. Saturday evening she writes me a two liner - "don't know if you intend to call me, but if you do please call at blah blah" The pedestal is still...

Agreed! Moved on, joined some local meetups and looking to spin more plates.. However, I'd still appreciate advice on what to do when she's contacting me (which she is doing now after 3 days of NC from my side, apparently the pedestal is coming down slowly..) I'd like to re-game her and...

Guys, thanks for your replies. So I did not contact her for 3 days after last mail, and since yesterday shes sent me 3 short emails - "dont see you online, hope you are okay" and such. An hour ago she called me but I didn't pick up, she left me a voicemail - "I sent you emails, let's find a...

Thanks for your replies, guys.. @Ease: I agree with you, but some things are out of my control. That guy is 40 years old and quite rich, while I'm a poor student right now. He gave her foreign trips for gifts when they were together, and I've taken her to the nearest water park. I'm...

So should I not contact her at all during her time in Romania? What about when she does? What about when she comes back to the US? I mean, I agree with you guys that I need to let her go.. but it's hard for me mentally right now.. I have to fake letting go for a while, I guess..

I started dating this girl about two months ago, she's Romanian and an international student in my grad school. At the outset, she told me that she had a relationship with an older guy in Romania which did not work out, but she's still in love with him. I didn't care and proceeded to f-close...

With respect, Falcon25, what makes you think that? What can I do in your opinion?

Okay guys, do I need to tell you you're awesome? You know you are! I need to ****ing slap myself - whenever I follow community rules, I start getting the babes, and then I go back to being the AFC I was.. Anyways, update on this one - after three days of NC (and dating another chick) she...

This post is gold! I'm pretty convinced I'm facing the active **** test right now, as she's been acting distant and rude for no reason after 2 great nights, and I've been (stupidly) supplicating and needy. Do you think it's game over in three days? Or can I turn this around still? How? By a...

This thread is gold! I'm pretty convinced I'm going through the active **** test right now, for the last three days she's been distant and even rude without reason, and I have (stupidly) been supplicating and needy. Do you think three days is enough for her to lose all attraction? Or I...