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Yea she saw my post, i have an open account

Was dating this plate between nov-jan. I told her that is better to not see each other again because her behaviour became anoying. She reached out yesterday because she saw that i was at a concert. She asked how it was and that she couldn’t go. What is the proper way to respond/act when plates...

Over the past few years, I’ve made a lot of improvements in my life and my game. However, I noticed a cycle that keeps repeating itself: I’m focused on myself, working toward goals, enjoying life, and not thinking about women. As a result, women start appearing more, more matches, more DMs...

I understand that it is normal to have periods that you have less girls, but i go from like talking to 10 woman to 0. I want to stabalize it more.

Over the past few years, I’ve made a lot of improvements in my life and my game. However, I noticed a cycle that keeps repeating itself: I’m focused on myself, working toward goals, enjoying life, and not thinking about women. As a result, women start appearing more, more matches, more DMs...

Ok, but what would have been the correct course of action? some guys proposed to text her and setup a date? otherw suggested to do nothing and let her reach out?

Yea i texted her and told her that it is better to not see each other anymore. Here is the exact text i sent: “hey it is my turn to send a long paragraph but luckily it is the only one i will send . i have told you in the beginning that certain behaviours of yours would only push me further...

For all of the 4 months I initiated contact 1 a week to with just some small talk to setup a date. When she complained I did not contact her more, I did aknowledge her feelings about it. I did not contact her for a week to see if her behaviour would change, I also don't want to be the only...

I also think that this is the cause. But how to avoid this in the future?

I would like to clarify that i in fact did not initiate more texts and just kept doing what i did before. 1 initiation a week to setup a date, nothing more. Yes, we also did a lot of fun stuff together, concerts, ice skating etc. Yes, i just told her that we shouldn't see each other any more...

Okay but lets say I have a plate that I want a relationship with, how would you handle it then? How to show her that you want a relationship without coming over as needy?

Thanks for the advice, but I did NOT text her MORE after she complained that she wanted me to initiate more and tell her more about how i feel about her. She told me that, i aknowledge her feelings, and just kept doing what i did before. I just kept texting her once a week to setup a date and...

okay, but what whould be the correct course of action right now? - initiate contact and keep dating until she cancels one and just bang her for now? - don't do anything and keep spinning my other plates? - just ask her why her behaviour has been of lately and just talk it out as 2 grown people...

So i have this plate that i have been seeing for 3 months. We see each other about 1 time a week and each time we have s3x and fun. In the beginning she would complain that i didn't contact her as much as she would like to. But i noticed that for the last 4 weeks i am the one initiating the...

How should i act then?