"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Teenagers college guys and thirty year olds who bang the office/school slut escort or strippers are going down a slippery slope:)!

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Like most guys one here I had a severe fear of public speaking (which seems to have a direct commonality with approaching women).Found this site swithed up my inner circle and have found success .Whats your thoughts on simps who bang onlyfans moms and slutty girls like escorts and office sluts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Like most guys one here I had a severe fear of public speaking (which seems to have a direct commonality with approaching women).Found this site swithed up my inner circle and have found success .Whats your thoughts on simps who bang onlyfans moms and slutty girls like escorts and office sluts?
They are not likely Christians, if they are, then they are deceived.
 

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I've been with several strippers. I think I'm still fine.

Whats this slippery slope you speak of?

You think it makes you a simp because you bang sluts, escorts, strippers, OF girls, etc? Why? What if you just like sex and a good time.

How many of these types of girls have you been with?
 

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You're afraid to go to Tootsie's cabaret and come back with a stripper from there? It's expensive.
 

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It's their lives. Unwise as I personally think such decisions are, it's of no consequence to anyone, except these fellas
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stds,addiction.Can you name one celebrity who wifed one up and is now happy:)?
 

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love your post im not a christian but obviously you are but religion has nothing to do a about it:)
I think it makes some types of women look more tempting, whereas without a religious filter, they just may be meh, whatever, right?

Case in point. When I subscribed to an escort in March/April corridor earlier this year (I unsubscribed by the middle of April and never went back on since then). When I played her videos on my VR-headset, I would comment on her site and say that I was shocked that she would say such a thing. Hearing a grown woman, in life-size format, talk like that, even though she's an escort, felt like shocking. Or mentioning I didn't log in on my birthday because God created me on my birthday and I want to honor Him because I see it as sacred to mark an anniversary date that brings glory to God, but I don't mind logging the next day.

The past interactions inform me that being a religious person, if you want to call it that, strongly colours the whole perception of those types of women, and those types of sites. For them to still be "shocking" to me, but "meh" to someone else proves that point.

@GoodMan32 visits an escort then it's a nice visit. I visit an escort back in Dec 5, 2014, I get a nervous breakdown and almost have to go to emergency and looks like I'm going to die before 2015,. Again religion has everything to do with it because it will process everything differently.
 
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I think it makes some types of women look more tempting, whereas without a religious filter, they just may be meh, whatever, right?

Case in point. When I subscribed to an escort in March/April corridor earlier this year (I unsubscribed by the middle of April and never went back on since then). When I played her videos on my VR-headset, I would comment on her site and say that I was shocked that she would say such a thing. Hearing a grown woman, in life-size format, talk like that, even though she's an escort, felt like shocking. Or mentioning I didn't log in on my birthday because God created me on my birthday and I want to honor Him because I see it as sacred to mark an anniversary date that brings glory to God, but I don't mind logging the next day.

The past interactions inform me that being a religious person, if you want to call it that, strongly colours the whole perception of those types of women, and those types of sites. For them to still be "shocking" to me, but "meh" to someone else proves that point.

@GoodMan32 visits an escort then it's a nice visit. I visit an escort back in Dec 5, 2014, I get a nervous breakdown and almost have to go to emergency and looks like I'm going to die before 2015,. Again religion has everything to do with it because it will process everything differently.
what website?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it makes some types of women look more tempting, whereas without a religious filter, they just may be meh, whatever, right?

Case in point. When I subscribed to an escort in March/April corridor earlier this year (I unsubscribed by the middle of April and never went back on since then). When I played her videos on my VR-headset, I would comment on her site and say that I was shocked that she would say such a thing. Hearing a grown woman, in life-size format, talk like that, even though she's an escort, felt like shocking. Or mentioning I didn't log in on my birthday because God created me on my birthday and I want to honor Him because I see it as sacred to mark an anniversary date that brings glory to God, but I don't mind logging the next day.

The past interactions inform me that being a religious person, if you want to call it that, strongly colours the whole perception of those types of women, and those types of sites. For them to still be "shocking" to me, but "meh" to someone else proves that point.

@GoodMan32 visits an escort then it's a nice visit. I visit an escort back in Dec 5, 2014, I get a nervous breakdown and almost have to go to emergency and looks like I'm going to die before 2015,. Again religion has everything to do with it because it will process everything differently.
how much did it cost?
 

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how much did it cost?
The Dec 5, 2014, escort named Bianca (possibly work name), who came from Brazil, and was in Canada for 2 months at point of contact. She was visited at 11:30p, just before midnight on Dec 6th, the time that Bill C-36 came into effect. Cost $60. Three twenty dollar bills Canadian went from my hands to her hands. A sacred understanding (but demonic unforturtunately). No other comminication needed to be made. Used their washroom. Went into her room, she was behind me, as I turned around, she began to take off her clothes.....I knew I was not going to leave that place pure....
 

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I dont sub to OnlyFans since April 15th. Normally I might reconsider resubscribing on or after Sept 25th, (including looking at escort pics and the like more freely, if I do not have a girlfriend).

2025 is different. There is ALLOT of youtube vids of Christians who have had dreams and visions of Jesus returning (Sept 23rd, or at some point in September), to take His bride, the faithful and watchful Christians. If I look at porn, go on onlyfans, or look at escort pics, and miss the Rapture, and end up suffering with everyone else left behind, I dont think I will be able to forgive myself.

No one knows the hour or daye of His return, but if its this September, then worrying about whether I have a gitlfriend or not as a pretext go going back on onlyfans on or after Seot 25 seems silly with me.
 

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I've been with several strippers. I think I'm still fine.

Whats this slippery slope you speak of?

You think it makes you a simp because you bang sluts, escorts, strippers, OF girls, etc? Why? What if you just like sex and a good time.

How many of these types of girls have you been with?
I dealt with a former OF chick she was a sweetheart but young (25) and flakey. I never looked at it long-term thing and knew it wouldn't last.
I think the only thing that scared me about banging her (she would BJ me up) was the fear of STDs
I know I know, you probably have a higher chance of getting STDs, most likely from Karen or Becky who is 32, average white woman in the cities who hooks up with multiple guys per month or per week. Works a 9-5 office job making 40-60K a year, then an OF chick who gets checked reguarly.

However for me if a chick puts out to fast you always get paranoid.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it makes some types of women look more tempting, whereas without a religious filter, they just may be meh, whatever, right?

Case in point. When I subscribed to an escort in March/April corridor earlier this year (I unsubscribed by the middle of April and never went back on since then). When I played her videos on my VR-headset, I would comment on her site and say that I was shocked that she would say such a thing. Hearing a grown woman, in life-size format, talk like that, even though she's an escort, felt like shocking. Or mentioning I didn't log in on my birthday because God created me on my birthday and I want to honor Him because I see it as sacred to mark an anniversary date that brings glory to God, but I don't mind logging the next day.

The past interactions inform me that being a religious person, if you want to call it that, strongly colours the whole perception of those types of women, and those types of sites. For them to still be "shocking" to me, but "meh" to someone else proves that point.

@GoodMan32 visits an escort then it's a nice visit. I visit an escort back in Dec 5, 2014, I get a nervous breakdown and almost have to go to emergency and looks like I'm going to die before 2015,. Again religion has everything to do with it because it will process everything differently.
you consider yourself a christian despite seeing escorts?
 

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I dealt with a former OF chick she was a sweetheart but young (25) and flakey. I never looked at it long-term thing and knew it wouldn't last.
I think the only thing that scared me about banging her (she would BJ me up) was the fear of STDs
I know I know, you probably have a higher chance of getting STDs, most likely from Karen or Becky who is 32, average white woman in the cities who hooks up with multiple guys per month or per week. Works a 9-5 office job making 40-60K a year, then an OF chick who gets checked reguarly.

However for me if a chick puts out to fast you always get paranoid.
you do escorts?
 

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you consider yourself a christian despite seeing escorts?
Very nice question, seeing as you are aware of my situation that I can't get married, my life circumstances are such I'm taking care of two elderly parents and my father has been cheated out of his inheritance putting me at risk of fianncial collapse. People here have options and abundance with women, I have nothing. So lets start there. Are you able to deal with women? I would get married to a woman rather than use her for sex. My ONLY sexual encounter with a woman where it went inside her was with my ex-wife. I never went inside any other woman, including any prostitute or escort. Fast forward today, since that option (ie marriage, etc..) is NOT available for me, then you want me to say that I don't like women and have no natural desire to want to be with a woman? What are you getting at?
 
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Very nice question, seeing as you are aware of my situation that I can't get married, my life circumstances are such I'm taking care of two elderly parents and my father has been cheated out of his inheritance putting me at risk of fianncial collapse. People here have options and abundance with women, I have nothing. So lets start there. Are you able to deal with women? I would get married to a woman rather than use her for sex. My ONLY sexual encounter with a woman where it went inside her was with my ex-wife. I never went inside any other woman, including any prostitute or escort. Fast forward today, since that option (ie marriage, etc..) is NOT available for me, then you want me to say that I don't like women and have no natural desire to want to be with a woman? What are you getting at?
christians are hypocrites.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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