Impressing a woman with an outfit

[Bokanovsky]

In terms of tickling a woman's fancy, how would I fare in this outfit?

On a scale from 1 from 10, with 1 being a homeless person and 10 being James Bond, I’d give your outfit a 2.

The shirt is wrinkled, way too small for you (look at how short the sleeves are) and the pattern looks ugly and cheap. In contrast, the belt is way too bulky for your slender frame. There’s room for improvement to say the least.

 

[GoodMan32]

On a scale from 1 from 10, with 1 being a homeless person and 10 being James Bond, I’d give your outfit a 2.

The shirt is wrinkled, way too small for you (look at how short the sleeves are) and the pattern looks ugly and cheap. In contrast, the belt is way too bulky for your slender frame. There’s room for improvement to say the least.

I mentioned on the OP that when posing for a picture, my shirt looks a lot more wrinkled than it does in person.

I then mentioned on a subsequent post (which I don't expect you to read every single post; I'm cutting you some slack on this one) that I cuffed my sleeves (I always cuff my sleeves). At full length, the sleeves are longer.

I own 3 belts. One thing I like about the belt in the picture is that it's reinforced with steel (makes the belt super strong/durable)

 

[HaleyBaron]

Is that you, Dale Gribble?

 

[The Duke]

@GoodMan32 the main thing is that you have picked up a few pointers that can improve your situation if you apply them. So what about applying what you have learned and coming back with an improved look in a few days? You could improve 2-3 pts just by buying the right clothes.

Maybe you could hire a shopping assistant that is into fashion? My aunt who was a buyer for Neiman's used to help me find clothes that looked good on me. It made a difference in my dating success.

 

[GoodMan32]

@GoodMan32 the main thing is that you have picked up a few pointers that can improve your situation if you apply them. So what about applying what you have learned and coming back with an improved look in a few days? You could improve 2-3 pts just by buying the right clothes.

Maybe you could hire a shopping assistant that is into fashion? My aunt who was a buyer for Neiman's used to help me find clothes that looked good on me. It made a difference in my dating success.

Right, I'm aware I've gotten pointers (and appreciate the input)

I just don't like, for example, getting criticized for the shirt's wrinkliness, when I already explained on the OP that the wrinkliness is an optical illusion.

I own some other shirts that fit me better by the way. Come to think of it, the shirt I'm wearing in the picture isn't one of my better shirts.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I mentioned on the OP that when posing for a picture, my shirt looks a lot more wrinkled than it does in person.

I then mentioned on a subsequent post (which I don't expect you to read every single post; I'm cutting you some slack on this one) that I cuffed my sleeves (I always cuff my sleeves). At full length, the sleeves are longer.

I own 3 belts. One thing I like about the belt in the picture is that it's reinforced with steel (makes the belt super strong/durable)

You mentioned that you were autistic so I’ll cut you some slack as well. Regardless of whether your sleeves are cuffed or not, it still looks retarded. If you’re going to roll up your sleeves, do it properly.

And who cares if the belt is steel-reinforced? Are you dressing for combat or a night on the town? Might as well wear a helmet just in case you bump your head against something while trying to pick up chicks lol

 

[GoodMan32]

You mentioned that you were autistic so I’ll cut you some slack as well. Regardless of whether your sleeves are cuffed or not, it still looks retarded. If you’re going to roll up your sleeves, do it properly.

And who cares if the belt is steel-reinforced? Are you dressing for combat or a night on the town? Might as well wear a helmet just in case you bump your head against something while trying to pick up chicks lol

Not pictured in the picture is the fact I wear stuff on my belt. A strong belt is important; I need a belt that can hold some weight.

 

[The Duke]

Here's a link to a shirt that is on a model who is small on top, and has a wider waist line, similar body type to yours. He has the sleeves pulled up and cuffs folded over.

Paisley Texture Solid Black Button Up Men'sLong Sleeve Dress Shirt

Adjustable Cuff -Tailored at Waist - Contrast Side Gussets - Signature Contrast Buttons - Contrast Trim on Inner Cuff, Collar + Placket - Limited Edition

bespokemoda.com

 

[Bokanovsky]

Not pictured in the picture is the fact I wear stuff on my belt. A strong belt is important; I need a belt that can hold some weight.

You’re missing the point. Your belt may be perfectly functional but it doesn’t look good. Style is about looking good, not about functionality.

 

[The Duke]

Right, I'm aware I've gotten pointers (and appreciate the input)

I just don't like, for example, getting criticized for the shirt's wrinkliness, when I already explained on the OP that the wrinkliness is an optical illusion.

I own some other shirts that fit me better by the way. Come to think of it, the shirt I'm wearing in the picture isn't one of my better shirts.

Its probably just the lighting/camera flash. Don't let it bother you. It happens to mine as well. You explained it in the opening post. If the retards can't read, thats on them.

 

[GoodMan32]

Here's a link to a shirt that is on a model who is small on top, and has a wider waist line, similar body type to yours. He has the sleeves pulled up and cuffs folded over.

Paisley Texture Solid Black Button Up Men'sLong Sleeve Dress Shirt

Adjustable Cuff -Tailored at Waist - Contrast Side Gussets - Signature Contrast Buttons - Contrast Trim on Inner Cuff, Collar + Placket - Limited Edition

bespokemoda.com

Nice visual. Even though I always start my day with the cuff job pictured in the picture I posted, I sometimes roll my sleeves up more like he does as the day goes on.

As for the picture I posted of me without a shirt, come to think of it, it's eerie how much I resemble a flat-chested woman (womanly hips). Your comment about a wider waistline made me think of that.

 

[GoodMan32]

You’re missing the point. Your belt may be perfectly functional but it doesn’t look good. Style is about looking good, not about functionality.

Ok, I get what you're saying.

Sometimes it's hard to find the balance between nice aesthetics as well as functionality.

The other 2 belts I own are thinner (but still pretty functional, even if not quite to the same degree as the steel-reinforced belt). Perhaps my other 2 belts are a good happy medium.

 

[GoodMan32]

Its probably just the lighting/camera flash. Don't let it bother you. It happens to mine as well. You explained it in the opening post. If the retards can't read, thats on them.

Yeah. Plus there's the fact that when posing for a picture, you're in a somewhat unnatural position.

In real life, we're moving around; not standing perfectly still like a statue.

 

[The Duke]

Nice visual. Even though I always start my day with the cuff job pictured in the picture I posted, I sometimes roll my sleeves up more like he does as the day goes on.

As for the picture I posted of me without a shirt, come to think of it, it's eerie how much I resemble a flat-chested woman (womanly hips). Your comment about a wider waistline made me think of that.

You need a shirt that is not so tight under the arm pits and side of your back(latissimus dorsi muscles that creates the v-taper look). The shirt you have enhances what you don't have on top(muscles) and amplifies your wider waist line. Something cut a little larger under the arms will hide that.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Ok, I get what you're saying.

Sometimes it's hard to find the balance between nice aesthetics as well as functionality.

The other 2 belts I own are thinner (but still pretty functional, even if not quite to the same degree as the steel-reinforced belt). Perhaps my other 2 belts are a good happy medium.

Do you have a higher end department store close where you live? Something like Saks or Nordstrom? I suggest you go and try a bunch of stuff from different brands to see what works for your body type.

 

[Jor-El]

A personal opinion but,I always think plain,solid colours look way better/more classy,than patterns. They age better to (in the look of it I mean) That shirt is like a car seat cover I had in my car about 20 years ago (and I hated it then) solid black/white/gray/navy blue for me in clothes.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Kushner is in great shape. I think Ivanka makes him work out, to match her physique.

 

[Clockwerk50]

There’s a reason why, when you ask for advice on the Redpill forums, the first thing the community asks is for you to mention your stats and lifts. The reason is that physical fitness is seen as a key indicator of self-discipline, confidence, and overall attractiveness, which can significantly improve your social and personal life.

I agree with some of the posters here. Even though the focus of the thread is on your fashion sense and not your physique, I think your attractiveness and social confidence will grow exponentially if you sign up for a gym, wouldn’t you say?

I’d focus on lateral raises, bench presses, shoulder presses, chest flies, shrugs, triceps extensions, and bicep curls. You’ll see noob gains almost instantly.

 

[SW15]

I've mentioned on the forum before that I've been told I resemble Jared Kushner. My hairstyle (and hair color) is comparable to his.

Even though Jared Kushner is pretty well-known, it's possible some posters (especially non-Americans) might not be familiar with him. For reference, here he is.

Kushner is in great shape. I think Ivanka makes him work out, to match her physique.

Kushner and Ivanka met through social circle.

In 2005 when they met, Ivanka was the daughter of a premier businessman and Kushner's parents were also well off.

Money and status mattered more for Kushner with Ivanka than pure looks.

 

[Bigpapa]

Here's what I wore to work today (this is also something I might wear on a weekend)

In terms of tickling a woman's fancy, how would I fare in this outfit?

(When posing for a picture, my shirt looks a lot more wrinkly than it really is)
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If you live in a more rural area, you could get away with a cowboy look (something similar to the style here ). But you have to do it right, like the Marlboro man

if you live in an urban area ( no matter where ), just forget about it and just go for the Zara looks shared here ( or similar )

even better if you could hire a style assistant

you hairstyle and other stuff related to your style has to be congruent in order to pull it off successfully. Basically 100% revamp of your style

If you live in a big city, baggy clothes is a must