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This is a good question, as she is a 2000s era has been.Why are you obsessed with Jessica alba?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This is a good question, as she is a 2000s era has been.Why are you obsessed with Jessica alba?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
she's just one of the many example of girls at 18 that don't look like they're just entering high school.Why are you obsessed with Jessica alba?
I remember when I was in college and was looking at the freshman and sophomore women. They were 18-20 and they looked great. They looked like women to me at the time, not girls. They had an amazing youthful vibrance that can't be re-created at 25 or 30.girls at 18
Good stuff!Huh? Do you even hang out with 18 year olds??? Lol
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Granted not 18, but one of the under 20 year olds I slept with this summer
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They looked liked high schoolers to me or 20 year olds. I do think average college women peak in looks sophomore-junior years. If a girl takes care of herself and has healthy routines then she will peak at a later age. However, if we are talking about a typical npc woman that’s lazy and just floats then her peak age will be from 18-20.I remember when I was in college and was looking at the freshman and sophomore women. They were 18-20 and they looked great. They looked like women to me at the time, not girls. They had an amazing youthful vibrance that can't be re-created at 25 or 30.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
For sex, I prefer much older (even 26 is far below my preference).Yeah that's been my experience. 23+ year old pu$$y makes me want to vomit
Another used up vag chaser
All women of the typical undergrad ages who attend college will be peaking at 18-23.They looked liked high schoolers to me or 20 year olds. I do think average college women peak in looks sophomore-junior years. If a girl takes care of herself and has healthy routines then she will peak at a later age. However, if we are talking about a typical npc woman that’s lazy and just floats then her peak age will be from 18-20.
The 18 year old Alba had a nice backside, no doubt.Huh? Do you even hang out with 18 year olds??? Lol
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Granted not 18, but one of the under 20 year olds I slept with this summer
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I am a long time recreational tennis player and that's important context for the story I'm about to share.Celebrity crushes are funny like that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
At the risk of contradicting what I said about preferring an older woman for sex, I had a female friend in college who was a total head-turner at 19.I remember when I was in college and was looking at the freshman and sophomore women. They were 18-20 and they looked great. They looked like women to me at the time, not girls. They had an amazing youthful vibrance that can't be re-created at 25 or 30.
On the flipside, in some cases, it can be hard to even tell the difference between 27 vs college-aged.All women of the typical undergrad ages who attend college will be peaking at 18-23.
If a woman takes care of herself as an undergrad and as a post-college woman, her peak will still be earlier. She'll experience less of a drop off. A 27 year old isn't as vibrant as a 20 year old, even an in-shape 27 year old with generally good habits.
One friend I know moved to Dallas with a 23 year old girlfriend. By 27, it was clear she was getting thicker. There was a noticeable drop off in her experience barely post college and 5-7 year post college (ages 27-29 for her).
I would take a 27-year-old that take care of herself and looks younger than her age over a 20 year old that is just riding off the fact that she's 20. Like I mentioned before, people rarely look their age. They either look younger or older than their actual age. A 20 year old can easily look 25-27 with body neglect or genetics or she can easily look 17-18 with genetics/proper maintenance.All women of the typical undergrad ages who attend college will be peaking at 18-23.
If a woman takes care of herself as an undergrad and as a post-college woman, her peak will still be earlier. She'll experience less of a drop off. A 27 year old isn't as vibrant as a 20 year old, even an in-shape 27 year old with generally good habits.
One friend I know moved to Dallas with a 23 year old girlfriend. By 27, it was clear she was getting thicker. There was a noticeable drop off in her experience barely post college and 5-7 year post college (ages 27-29 for her).
Anna Kournikova is another celebrity crush I had. I lost track of her. After looking up what she currently looks like, her looks have gone downhill.I am a long time recreational tennis player and that's important context for the story I'm about to share.
In my first job after college, I remember talking about Maria Sharapova one time in the work breakroom. This happened in Fall 2005 when Sharapova was 18 and I was 22 then. Sharapova had made a name for herself on the pro tennis tour already by her surprise win at Wimbledon 2004 at age 17. This was different than Anna Kournikova. Kournikova was a super hottie of the late 1990s/early 2000s who got more attention for her looks than her tennis game. Kournikova never won a major. Sharapova being attractive AND winning 3 major tournaments between July 2004-January 2008 was a big deal at the time.
Sharapova was attractive in 2005. Her peak looks as an adult female happened from 2005-2008 (ages 18-21). That would have coincided with her being a college student had she been a college student instead of a professional tennis player.
Sharapova was fitter than most women and still her looks peak was late teens/early 20s.
The overwhelming majority of 18-20 year old girls, in 2024, not back in your day type sh1t, are sexually inexperienced. Does that mean every girl that age has only 1-2 partners? No. There are exceptions. There's this chick in my gf's circle that was banging guys left and right her freshman year. Who is now in a sorority and has a boyfriend that she's loyal to. Just because those girls exist, don't mean they represent the majority.Keep thinking that st 18yo she's only have had 1-2. For your info, in high school 16-17, women compete to know who can have the most bodies, one girl told me her circle of friends, they have had already 30 bodies.
Furthermore, to shatter your ego, there are parties that called sex parties, where they spin a bottle and the have sex, remember before there were only kisses, now the guy introduces his penis for certain amount time, and the one who cumes loses the game. So inform yourself before posting nonsense.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are 18-23 year old females that are doing well based on the fact that they are 18-23.I would take a 27-year-old that take care of herself and looks younger than her age over a 20 year old that is just riding off the fact that she's 20. Like I mentioned before, people rarely look their age. They either look younger or older than their actual age. A 20 year old can easily look 25-27 with body neglect or genetics or she can easily look 17-18 with genetics/proper maintenance.
I hang out with them. If you did too, you would reach the same conclusion. Instead of dating leftover single moms and regurgitating hot takes from red pill losersSource?
There are various public people-searching websites where even if you search by a maiden name, it will likely pull up the woman (and show you her AKAs). That's one way to find the married name of your former classmates.There are 18-23 year old females that are doing well based on the fact that they are 18-23.
I have seen some social media profiles in more recent years of some of the hotties from my "Hot Girl U" college attendance era of 2001-2005. Some aged well and some did not. These are women who are now 40-41.
I wish I could find the social media profiles of more of the hotties that era. Some have marital name changes so I have never located them. I can't remember some names + possible marital name changes.
Childbirths are a factor in the aging of some of these women. I know of an example where one woman has stayed childless and her early 40s physique is impressive.
None of these women at 40-41 have a physique that rivals their 18-22 year old selves.
I go to an expensive gym and the older women there do turn eyes. It is all about the individual at the end of the day. I can tell if an 18-20 year old girl is just living off her youth and not taking care of herself on the inside. Even in my college fraternity, we had a story or something about the younger girls we got.There are 18-23 year old females that are doing well based on the fact that they are 18-23.
I have seen some social media profiles in more recent years of some of the hotties from my "Hot Girl U" college attendance era of 2001-2005. Some aged well and some did not. These are women who are now 40-41.
I wish I could find the social media profiles of more of the hotties that era. Some have marital name changes so I have never located them. I can't remember some names + possible marital name changes.
Childbirths are a factor in the aging of some of these women. I know of an example where one woman has stayed childless and her early 40s physique is impressive.
None of these women at 40-41 have a physique that rivals their 18-22 year old selves.
So this was what 2013? I don't think girls back then were as dedicated about fitness and dietary habits as girls today that grew up with tiktok. So the girls I been with thus far have none of the cons you listed aboveEven in my college fraternity, we had a story or something about the younger girls we got.
-They have weird disproportionate bodies from starting fat accumulation hidden from clothes or shaped like 12 year old boys
-Cottage cheese legs or ass
-saggy tits
-Some imperfection that can't be ignored
-Poor dietary & fitness habits
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.