You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bro this Pan87 dude will use his hypergamy model to justify everything. This is because he has only READ this stuff. Not lived it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No i have actually lived enough to see a lot when I was in my 20s and early 30s. I've hung around Chads and trust me it's a whole different world. I have hung around and dabbled in stuff that doesn't always fit into your hypergamy model. You are probably 21 yrs old and have never done anything you speak of.
Bruh explain why she would be sexually attracted to her 5 foot 2 super girly friend? Women have female to female sexual encounters. Explain that Mr hypergamy lol
Bro i never said random bro. I said that they get passed around within a social circle and it's natural. Much like how we probably did it in tribal units. They know these guys within the circle. Girls routinely smash multiple dudes in a unit. I'm not gonna argue this much longer with you.
They also succeed most other times as well, like I said, every attractive guy will agree with me, if someone doesn't agree they simply don't live in that reality, fair enough.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They aren't common human traits they are the result of centuries of social constructing
I see where your trying to get at.
You have no idea what its like to be an extremely handsome man. Stop lying on the internet. Just the fact you said the 50% cheating stat for women is over estimated exposes your ignorance. If anything women cheat more than men.
Yep, someone has seen some sh!t lol
Ooouuuu they get so nasty lol
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes I agree. They are not very " advanced" but this is where we come from. Every one of us. So we still have these behaviors today.
Thank you for this information. I will incorporate it and research it further. You are right I may be oversimplifying things. But my main point stands that women do have the capacity to breed with multiple men within an in group and it be completely normal.
Some of these tribes allowed strangers to mate with their women. They did this in order to mix up the gene pool. They offered women to their guest. They also mixed it up with neighboring tribes.
Lol you sound like you are trying to sell a PUA course for $19.99
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jesus, do you interact with women in real life?
Had this happen to me this past weekend. Girl basically stole me away from this other chick I had just number closed lol. But I'm high value (which is subjective) in the way striker's comment below describes it. Vs "high value" in the way I've see thrown around here
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Yes that's exaclty what I am saying. The sperm of the tribal guys compete. In fact tribes like the sperm to mix. They were the first people to talk about telogony. They believe that a kid can express multiple traits from the many fathers.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.