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I think the whole point of this site is for guys who don’t know how to get women.

If a man can get average girls, he can get hot girls almost easier. It’s the same formula, just a numbers/connections game.

As an example, I went through hell and back trying to make a lot of money. Then I realized I was brainwashed by society and doing it all wrong: When I found out the right formula the rich people use, I just kept repeating it and repeating it. Now I’ve got so much money I don’t know what to do with it. But it was finding the right formula that was hell.

You make a nice offer, yet it’s more of the realm: “If you have your first million, I can show you how to make ten million. But you have to have the first million first. Don’t ask me for help on making the first million.”

Little tough.
What's your job?

Your post might be true... But some of the people that he's not wanting to help keep themselves there with their own negativity. It would be pointless to try.
 

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What's your job?

Your post might be true... But some of the people that he's not wanting to help keep themselves there with their own negativity. It would be pointless to try.
Nah he probably has repackaged and recycled advice. PUA bill of fake goods have been on decline since the last decade.

Everyone has a spin on common sense or a simple google search. Its 2021 not 2005.
 

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Nah he probably has repackaged and recycled advice. PUA bill of fake goods have been on decline since the last decade.

Everyone has a spin on common sense or a simple google search. Its 2021 not 2005.
What's he gaining if he's not asking for money?
 

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What's he gaining if he's not asking for money?
He does not have enough credibility to ask for money. Right now he is just some guy that joined about a month ago and is making all sorts of unverifiable claims and now he has an agenda to promote himself as a dating guru. The forum rules prohibit marketing and promoting. A "free trial" would be a way to circumvent the forum rules so there is always something to gain.
 

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You don’t present as a guy that’s knee deep in a river of pvssy.

You better jump on this bro.
Because I have a river of Jesus so I dont need broken cisterns. Anything in this world is temporary and is only as good as the last fix.
 

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Agreed. Just create topics and share advice publicly on the forum so true players like you can pick it apart. The biggest issue in the DJ community are self-proclaimed advice-givers who don't actually know what they are doing with women.

Reminds me of EyeBRollin telling guys to pay for multiple restaurant dates prior to inviting her home. Weak.
I think the biggest issue is that nothing can be verified. Mostly due to the fact that it's not appropriate to post photos.

Just because someone types the words "HB8" doesn't mean everyone else would find her attractive.
 

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I respect that, for sure.

So, if you don’t need ‘broken cisterns’, why are you here?
You don't need to get laid as an end-goal with women. Maybe a nice chat, hugging, making-out, learning horseback riding, etc.... getting married, etc.... these are all goals that can include women that do not involve a lifestyle of getting laid. In fact, I'd prefer a rich experience with a woman where I'm learning horseback riding for the first time over getting laid.

I didn't say women themselves are a "broken cistern". I said, getting laid, pumping and dumping, that lifestyle, yeah, that's broken cistern with me. It's just not my thing. Anything in the process of getting laid might be seen as an end-goal with me in and of itself but with a goal as growing as a person and self-actualizing and experiencing true love out there. So I wouldn't actually portray that pvssy is an end goal. Maybe a devoted woman who loves me might be though?
 

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You don't need to get laid as an end-goal with women. Maybe a nice chat, hugging, making-out, learning horseback riding, etc.... getting married, etc.... these are all goals that can include women that do not involve a lifestyle of getting laid. In fact, I'd prefer a rich experience with a woman where I'm learning horseback riding for the first time over getting laid.

I didn't say women themselves are a "broken cistern". I said, getting laid, pumping and dumping, that lifestyle, yeah, that's broken cistern with me. It's just not my thing.
You need your own section on this forum so that people can choose whether they want to interact with you or not.
 

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You need to get your T-levels check, my friend. Not wanting to have sex with women, as a man, indicates that your estrogen levels are too high. The effects of High estrogen are wanting to cuddle women and have sex-less snuggle sessions.
I need to be married to a woman first otherwise it's fornication and there will be a ding in the conscience and its a sin. I just quit watching porn/escort pics about a week ago and it is my ninth day of nofap so I think I'm doing all I can do in that department.
 

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I need to be married to a woman first otherwise it's fornication and there will be a ding in the conscience and its a sin. I just quit watching porn/escort pics about a week ago and it is my ninth day of nofap so I think I'm doing all I can do in that department.
I'm going to stop responding to this guy. Anyone want to join me? It just wastes time and goes nowhere, even when people start out with the intention of helping him.
 

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I'm going to stop responding to this guy. Anyone want to join me? It just wastes time and goes nowhere, even when people start out with the intention of helping him.
You need Jesus too. You are experiencing conviction. I will pray for you.
 
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I get laid because I just embrace it and keep approaching until I find a girl who's attracted
Exactly.

Embrace the process while pursuing (whatever) goals.

Courage - Right Action - Consistency

Develop a resilient Frame - become stronger with the knocks and setbacks - learn from them, analysis and adapt.

Work from an internal locus of control. Control the controllables.
 

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What's he gaining if he's not asking for money?
Not everything is about money. People get their "pay off" in different ways.

Women on social media trade in validation and attention.

Many men will come on here because they have some issues related to women or masculinity or simply curious due to rational male or other similar garbage. Some will get their issues sorted as they will go out and apply whatever information they needed in the real world over a consistent basis, some stay to keep their toe in the water, others stay because they become addicted to the ego boost. Men who are too much "into themselves" are very often operating from HUBRIS.

Note how many posters "qualify" themselves. Note how many posters who talk about "other men" are betas/not men any more. (listen to the implicit message.) The implicit message is really that they are "real men" or pseudo alphas. The poster who posted on the sosuave meet up thread was a great example of this : "I'm going to start a conference on how to be a real man in 2021"!!!! ....now the implicit message is really the pseudo alpha here is qualifying himself in front of a bunch of other pseudo alphas and thus feeding his ego and deluding himself with this ego boost that is holding his fragile reality together. Again, listen to the implicit message.....listen to the men desperate to qualify themselves....(and subtly or sometimes not so subtly disqualifying other men....).

the op has made a huge opening declaration in which he is qualifying himself (once again) as "one of the only players or gamers" on sosuave (...disqualifying the masses in the process too). He'll get his validation knowing that the majority won't take him up on his offer as, like the likes o @Velasco and @characternote have stated , it's not rocket science if you put yourself out there on a consistent basis. The ones who probably could do with some advice the op has responded to them "I'll help all except the incels". Big op to qualify himself but then he withdraws his offer to the ones that probably need it..........

He gets his ego validation.
 

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Not everything is about money. People get their "pay off" in different ways.

Women on social media trade in validation and attention.

Many men will come on here because they have some issues related to women or masculinity or simply curious due to rational male or other similar garbage. Some will get their issues sorted as they will go out and apply whatever information they needed in the real world over a consistent basis, some stay to keep their toe in the water, others stay because they become addicted to the ego boost. Men who are too much "into themselves" are very often operating from HUBRIS.

Note how many posters "qualify" themselves. Note how many posters who talk about "other men" are betas/not men any more. (listen to the implicit message.) The implicit message is really that they are "real men" or pseudo alphas. The poster who posted on the sosuave meet up thread was a great example of this : "I'm going to start a conference on how to be a real man in 2021"!!!! ....now the implicit message is really the pseudo alpha here is qualifying himself in front of a bunch of other pseudo alphas and thus feeding his ego and deluding himself with this ego boost that is holding his fragile reality together. Again, listen to the implicit message.....listen to the men desperate to qualify themselves....(and subtly or sometimes not so subtly disqualifying other men....).

the op has made a huge opening declaration in which he is qualifying himself (once again) as "one of the only players or gamers" on sosuave (...disqualifying the masses in the process too). He'll get his validation knowing that the majority won't take him up on his offer as, like the likes o @Velasco and @characternote have stated , it's not rocket science if you put yourself out there on a consistent basis. The ones who probably could do with some advice the op has responded to them "I'll help all except the incels". Big op to qualify himself but then he withdraws his offer to the ones that probably need it..........

He gets his ego validation.
I'm willing to listen to what he says. It's not costing me anything. If he's not legit or the advice can't help me, then I'll quit listening.
 
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