BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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- Dec 16, 2015
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We were married 15 years. The fiasco with his business partner occurred in the second year. That year I also gave birth to my son. He was a full time father for 10 years and I was loyal and patient. The last several years of the marriage I told him straight up that I would eventually divorce him in time over his lack of drive or ambition. Despite our children & friendship & great sex life. Late in the marriage I helped him start his own business, and I put thousands of dollars into it as well as time & effort. I deferred to him in that endeavor, as it was his. But I knew the day it opened it would fail. He never bothered to establish the habits and discipline required to run a business and he ran in just as he had run our household, very poorly. It was a cool venue, and could have made it but he mismanaged it terribly. I never recovered what I put into it financially and that’s Ok.So that club loss killed him. You gave him 10 yrs to figure his next move.
We got divorced 6 years ago. My son works at his old venue, which has become successful for someone else.
My ex husband now works a regular job in a structured environment and makes very little. He is satisfied just getting by and has let himself go physically since we split. Never goes to the dentist, won’t get a hernia repaired, stuff like that.
Meanwhile Ive kept myself up and my trajectory has been very different.