"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hugh Hefner...Dead at 91.... RIP you Magnificent Bastard..

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheGambino

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For those who say money doesn't matter, here's his wife that he married at age 86.

https://goo.gl/images/R3IQEU

I hope I live to be 91, although I'm kind of miserable even now.
Dude go find out your passions and live by iT man. Jeez Im also not always happy but most of the time I am! I love life. You cant be miserable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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djthiago1

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His life might have looked fun from the outside, but i wonder if he was trully happy.
 

Reykhel

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"...How would you like to die Tyrion son of Tywin?"

"In my own bed, at the age of 80, with a belly full of wine and a girl's mouth around my c0ck"

Hugh came close enough.
Wow, true enlightenment right there.
 

Desdinova

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Hefner was born April 9, 1926, in Chicago, to parents he described as emotionally distant. A child of the Depression, he sought with Playboy in "creating the party that I missed," he once admitted. His teen years had been fun but chaste; he didn't lose his virginity until 22.

Sounds like a lot of the dudes that show up on this site.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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His life might have looked fun from the outside, but i wonder if he was trully happy.
Lol, you guys trip me out with this "truly happy" stuff.......as if honestly ANY human being honestly achieves "true happiness" throughout their lifetime.

It's the lazy man's way of making an excuse for why he hasn't achieved much in life. He will point to the fact that there are people with a lot of money but they have X, Y, and Z problem or they aren't "truly happy", thus, I guess that's some insane reason to not chase your dreams, passions, etc. in life?

I don't think anyone ever achieves true happiness in life because life always brings problems, no matter how much is in your bank account or how big your net worth is. I'm just the type of guy that I would rather face life's problems with MONEY in my pocket versus facing life's problems without it. I find that with MONEY, I'm able to deal with life's problems much more efficiently than without it.
 

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I dunno if this is true but apparently he said the last girl to sleep with him before he dies would inherit his wealth. Lol
 

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Hugh the god always had a huge stable of 20 year old blonds :D

RIP
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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