I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Right. Sex is more mental and emotional with women vs. almost completely physical with men.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm glad there's a woman here who can back me up, so what I say here shouldn't be dismissed.Many women climax more reliably from oral or digital stimulation than from penetration. But women are much more individual than men in this regard. My ex and I used to discuss this quite a bit, he was an experienced man and I found it fascinating since I only know myself. If you as a man can truly give her a powerful orgasm, she is going to think twice about letting you go. And now you know why I stayed with my ex for so many years.
You would have sex with a girl who needed to clean up?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That's what your hand is for.
I think showering together before doing it can be part of the foreplay while also cleaning things up for some oral fun for both of you. My guy and I do this, it's part of the foreplay leading to the main event.
Male junk smells too when not washed. Any part of the body where moisture accumulates and where you sweat is going to have a odour at the end of the day.
Omg this is WRONG WRONG WRONG. I hate when I see "advice" given that is erroneous and can cause injury of sometime actually believes it!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Some girls smell bad always. All girls smell bad some days. But most girls I've eaten had absolutely no odor most of the time (97%).
Absolutely false. Stop preaching Big Pharma lies.
Stop twisting my words, I'm not preaching big Pharma anything. You are completely crazy if you think a diet will save you from Catching herpes. Stop misleading people with your nonsense!!
I guess that's the thing. Not really interested in either at this point. It goes through stages. I've got a couple of plates and I'm happy enough with them and they're happy enough with me that I don't have to reinvent the wheel.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Never been with one who smell and taste that good, but I have been with a lot worse. I'm not gonna find a new girl just for that, licking it isn't my thing anyways.
I hope some of you are paying attention to what our resident Mom is saying here! Des tried to say it, I tried to say it.....and some of you refuse to accept.A good lover can be hard to find (pun intended). Seriously though few men have any idea what they are doing based on my rather limited experience. My ex husband was/is an amazing lover, something not simple to replace. That was the only thing I was starting to struggle with regarding the lover I had since getting divorced. He didn't know what he was doing either orally or digitally and got a little frustrated if I tried to guide him with what works. He was passionate and a great kisser, but frankly somewhat disappointing in bed because he expected me to work just like his ex-wife. But I don't.
While men are pretty simple (y'all climax when you bust your nut) with stimulation, women are much more complex. Sexuality and climax have to do with intimacy, trust, emotional closeness and bonding in addition to technique. Some women fake to make their partners feel better, others are completely off the rails/out of control. That's where you get crazy sex. Unfortunately crazy sex is often attached to certifiably crazy. Emotionally healthy women are going to take a bit to warm up (the tea kettle is a good analogy) but once you learn how to drive the car, enjoying the performance gets good.
Many women climax more reliably from oral or digital stimulation than from penetration. But women are much more individual than men in this regard. My ex and I used to discuss this quite a bit, he was an experienced man and I found it fascinating since I only know myself. If you as a man can truly give her a powerful orgasm, she is going to think twice about letting you go. And now you know why I stayed with my ex for so many years.
1) Most Chicks want their pvssy eaten.
That's actually a good idea. This is probably a personal question, but do you shave/wax? Or does your bf not care about hair at all?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
