"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is Social Media Turning All Women into the Same Woman?

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Beautiful women were always corrupt and unpredictable, but now that each one of them is networked with 1000+ other corrupt women, and now they can monitor each other in real time, hasn't this had the effect of merging them all into one super-corrupt woman?

Don't women all think alike now, even more than ever? Are the odds of finding a "sheltered" woman that much smaller now?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think you're right, but I don't think it has anything to do with "monitoring" each other. The same information does get spread across to each of them much more quickly and effectively. I've never seen so much fat pride in my life. Back when I initially joined this site, a woman being fat wasn't something to be proud of and she would've been criticized by other women.

The other things that are spread across very quickly are gay pride, gay oppression, oppression against women, and what a real man should be. I see this garbage popping up very frequently in my news feeds. Minds are getting brainwashed and corrupted at the speed of lightning.

All I know is the next 20 years are going to be interesting. There's either going to be a large decrease in human reproduction, or there's going to be a huge backlash against feminism and pro-LGBT propaganda.
 

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Biological all women are same.

Family/culture/life events/education shaped their behaviour or expressiveness in various way.

I believe social media just connects the dot to a single platform. And global culture
 

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Right, right! I remember a time when a four or five hb, knew she was a four or five. And they operated and conducted them selves accordingly. A time when fat whales knew they were fat, but NOT now.

WOMEN HAVE CHANGED. Like I've been preaching all week, I'm experiencing weird off the wall type stuff that's never been a problem before, who knows maybe I'm getting rusty, hell I know I am, I don't seem to have the pull that I used to.

There is mass delusion happening right now with ALL women. Just the other day, I ran across a profile where this woman:
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Messaged me and ask me why I didn't message HER first, this was shortly after I had viewed her profile, she had a chip on her shoulder and seem overly agitated about it:eek:and even though I tried to break the ice, the conversation rapidly went down hill from there. I almost felt her ego was so fragile that she couldn't stand the fact that a man could view her profile and not immediately start kissing her ass. :confused:

So now, those females who recognize your SMV is higher even they have entitlement issues. I told her to just forget about and kept it moving..:rolleyes:

Btw, what would you guys rate her?
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree and it seems the **** tests are worse then ever and being a dj and protecting our hearts, not much different then them were instantly classified as **** boys...well what does that make them.
 

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Women are a collective like the Borg, and Mark Zuckerberg is the Borg queen.
 

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the worlds gone mad, a world without heroes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has anyone noticed how strippers and the average woman seemed to sort of meet half way over the past decade? Strippers and porn became more mainstream, and the average woman became raunchier. There used to be a great divide back when a pretty girl could make a living as say a bank teller or secretary. Now if they are hot, they are selling it somehow.

Last night I asked a stripper who was making out with me "What can a stripper do to prove herself to a man?" She said "Good question". We agreed that if there were such a proof that existed, and the secret got out, that it too would be sold on the open market as false hope.
 

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Has anyone noticed how strippers and the average woman seemed to sort of meet half way over the past decade? Strippers and porn became more mainstream, and the average woman became raunchier. There used to be a great divide back when a pretty girl could make a living as say a bank teller or secretary. Now if they are hot, they are selling it somehow.

Last night I asked a stripper who was making out with me "What can a stripper do to prove herself to a man?" She said "Good question". We agreed that if there were such a proof that existed, and the secret got out, that it too would be sold on the open market as false hope.
Absolutely, I know of a few decent looking girls that are low quality and every time they need money because they can't handle having a real Job they go do live cam shows. They don't even get to sexual on them from what I hear,and all the desperate afc losers pay pay pay and don't even get anything all the while stroking the girls ego.
 

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women flock to trends like flys to chit!

they even have a name for the cliche'...that they use themselves..its called a "basic b1tch" lol.

typically it was apple product/yoga pants/uggs/starbucks/instagram etc.

they know it
 

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No all women have always been the same. With social media it's just easy for us to see this.
Correct.

Just like all men like hot bodies. Men getting on social networking sites to discuss their love for hot bodies does not make men like hot bodies any more than they already did. Technology has not changed people.. it has just exposed people.
 

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Correct.

Just like all men like hot bodies. Men getting on social networking sites to discuss their love for hot bodies does not make men like hot bodies any more than they already did. Technology has not changed people.. it has just exposed people.
Pound for pound......Poon King is THE best poster on Sosuave right now and one of the greatest of all time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beautiful women were always corrupt and unpredictable, but now that each one of them is networked with 1000+ other corrupt women, and now they can monitor each other in real time, hasn't this had the effect of merging them all into one super-corrupt woman?

Don't women all think alike now, even more than ever? Are the odds of finding a "sheltered" woman that much smaller now?
You may call it "corrupt", but that's just your subjective opinion. They are as they are, no matter what you want to call it.

If they are all alike it would be an advantage, because if you figure out just one of them you'll figure out all of them. It proves to be more complex than that in reality if you ask me, there's still huge differences.

Don't judge so quickly and you'll see my point.
 

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. Technology has not changed people.. it has just exposed people.
Yes, but doesn't exposing that everyone is bad normalize being bad?

You may call it "corrupt", but that's just your subjective opinion.
Yes, you can normalize female corruption, but compared to men, women do not have a natural sense of honor or integrity. I'm not saying this is bad, because I do believe in normalization, but try lending a woman $20 and telling her to come mow your lawn the next day and see how well she performs compared to the neighbor's 16 year old son. If she shows up and does it (and/or if you drop $20 in her car and she pays you back) she is gold. Honor and integrity are male qualities. Women are fly by night. If Brad Pitt shows up, she is cancelling your plans.
 

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I asked two more particularly attractive strippers tonight "What can a stripper do to prove she really liked a customer?". Here were their answers:

1) Giving him her number really soon.
2) Holding eye contact for a long time.
 

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@bigneil Paying someone cash in advance with nothing to prove the other person owes you a favor is just being naive. If I had no other ties to you then even I might run off with the money. There's a reason receipts, contracts and other similar documents are commonly used in business.

It would generally be a bad idea to give any person you cannot trust or have no ties with $20 one day in advance to mow your lawn.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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