Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I came across a profile on POF. She said she was "Really into feminism"
I emailed her and said "we can go to dinner but none of that feminism b vll****."
She sent me a 2 paragraph response detailing why guys like me are 'precisely what's wrong with society.'
I'm against feminists but this statement is ridiculousAn extreme push for gay rights and gay marriage is also part of the agenda to ruin our society.
Years ago I went to a date one of those beasts.I came across a profile on POF. She said she was "Really into feminism"
I emailed her and said "we can go to dinner but none of that feminism b vll****."
She sent me a 2 paragraph response detailing why guys like me are 'precisely what's wrong with society.'
Lol the small pen|s one is classic "I know he got me with fact so I will attempt to upset him out of desperation cuz most betas get upset when women say this. "Years ago I went to a date one of those beasts.
She-beast : I am a feminist.
Coolest puertorican in the world: I don't date feminists , standing up and leave.
She-beast called probably thirty times. Apparently I was not man enough,small penis,no tall enough and bla bla bla. Messages changed , she was so lonely, men didn't took her seriously..........
Is so hard for me to write in this fvcking device...
Homosexuality is encouraged in socialist societies.I'm against feminists but this statement is ridiculous
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Homosexuality should be accepted in civilized societiesHomosexuality is encouraged in socialist societies.
I'm accepted is subjective. I don't think little kid's should be exposed to it. I don't think people should forcing people to think it's normal. It's not normal or natural. I mean they aren't killed or jailed for it anymore and that's a very fair level of acceptance.Homosexuality should be accepted in civilized societies
Yup. Teaching little kid's about this stuff and all the gender neutral/ tranny stuff is just sinister. Feminism has already created toxicity towards masculinity in our public education system. How they're teaching them that they don't have to keep being a male.for gay thing i'm more like I don't care what you do in your damn room, as long you don't do it in plain view, and I mean that is teh same for men and woman couple, I don't care, as long you don't shove it on my face.
problem I see here is gay people asking for acceptance then I wonder why I would care? i'm not gay, you are not my "market" so why the hell I would even care you exist? then you ahve people forcing others to accept what they want, i'm more worried with the will to cap my liberty then you being gay, lesbian, or is in love with a damn doll, jsut do what you want and stop being annoying
You know those old men who live in their own little world and cling to the outdated, bigoted beliefs from back in the day? You're going to be that guy in a few decades.Yup. Teaching little kid's about this stuff and all the gender neutral/ tranny stuff is just sinister. Feminism has already created toxicity towards masculinity in our public education system. How they're teaching them that they don't have to keep being a male.
That sh1t is pure evil. That's on the same level of evil of some one keeping a little kid in the basement and molesting it.
Yet it's government funded now. Socialism is great right?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nice, shaming people for that they think, the thing about old people holding back old belives is from human beings, you will do it too, if you don't do already, but is just afraid to say your mind so you can be seen as forward thinking person, and no is not fair warning is a cheap atempt to shame peopleYou know those old men who live in their own little world and cling to the outdated, bigoted beliefs from back in the day? You're going to be that guy in a few decades.
When you're still bashing homosexuality then, it will be just like the racists now who bash blacks and other races. People will shake their head and feel sorry for you. Fair warning.
As if shaming someone for having a belief (a bigoted one) is innately wrong or something. Your point that I'm imperfect is a straw man argumentnice, shaming people for that they think, the thing about old people holding back old belives is from human beings, you will do it too, if you don't do already, but is just afraid to say your mind so you can be seen as forward thinking person, and no is not fair warning is a cheap atempt to shame people
It is natural, dogs.... They try n f.cuk same sex all the time, other animals too, monkey gave been known to act a little gay too!I'm accepted is subjective. I don't think little kid's should be exposed to it. I don't think people should forcing people to think it's normal. It's not normal or natural. I mean they aren't killed or jailed for it anymore and that's a very fair level of acceptance.
How can you claim to be tolerant when you're intolerant of my intolerance. You realize that makes you just as bigoted as me.As if shaming someone for having a belief (a bigoted one) is innately wrong or something. Your point that I'm imperfect is a straw man argument
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.