Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2001
- Messages
- 643
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- Age
- 41
Hey guys, hope all's well wherever you may be, its been a long long time since ive been here, let alone posted.
So, whats been happening? Well, since coming here quite a few years ago much has changed and as I look through a lot of the posts in the main discussion board it disappoints me to see the same posts as there were back then. What disappoints me more is how i used to post the same sort of stuff!
Anyway, since the old days ive had a number of relationships, travelled the world, learnt a lot about myself and life, met some of the greatest people im ever going to meet, and have solidified probably the best group of friends i could ever dream of. I'm a happy guy, full of confidence and life, the opposite to how i once was.
And why? Well, i stopped thinking, stopped analysing, and just lived! Went out as much as i could, stopped caring about the problems in my life and instead just listened to what i truly wanted in life. Just listening what my heart wants to do without thinking of the consequences all the time. What do i wanna do? Who do i wanna hang out with? Where do i wanna go? What do i want to eat, say, etc? The more you listen to your wants and desires as opposed to a series of calculated instructions or the apparent social restrictions, the happier you are and the more attractive you are to be around.
Sure i still make mistakes, have my heart broken, over analyse some relationships, etc, but thats just me and ive come to accept that. The more accepting you are about who you are and truly learn to love yourself the more i can sit back stop taking life so seriously the happier ive become.
Once you can listen to and trust yourself completely, you can let go all those thoughts and calculations and just fall back effortlessly and enjoy life for the big ride that it is.
Much happiness,
DJP
So, whats been happening? Well, since coming here quite a few years ago much has changed and as I look through a lot of the posts in the main discussion board it disappoints me to see the same posts as there were back then. What disappoints me more is how i used to post the same sort of stuff!
Anyway, since the old days ive had a number of relationships, travelled the world, learnt a lot about myself and life, met some of the greatest people im ever going to meet, and have solidified probably the best group of friends i could ever dream of. I'm a happy guy, full of confidence and life, the opposite to how i once was.
And why? Well, i stopped thinking, stopped analysing, and just lived! Went out as much as i could, stopped caring about the problems in my life and instead just listened to what i truly wanted in life. Just listening what my heart wants to do without thinking of the consequences all the time. What do i wanna do? Who do i wanna hang out with? Where do i wanna go? What do i want to eat, say, etc? The more you listen to your wants and desires as opposed to a series of calculated instructions or the apparent social restrictions, the happier you are and the more attractive you are to be around.
Sure i still make mistakes, have my heart broken, over analyse some relationships, etc, but thats just me and ive come to accept that. The more accepting you are about who you are and truly learn to love yourself the more i can sit back stop taking life so seriously the happier ive become.
Once you can listen to and trust yourself completely, you can let go all those thoughts and calculations and just fall back effortlessly and enjoy life for the big ride that it is.
Much happiness,
DJP