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It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

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The Mystic DJ

Do you know what the difference between a fake DJ and a real DJ is? The fake DJ looks for answers outside of himself, the real DJ looks for them inside.

The truth about us humans is that we have infinite power and potential locked away inside of us. Each of us is a repository of knowledge, holding all the secrets of the universe. At the innermost recesses of our mind we are connected to the source of all being and all knowledge. The trouble is we have placed many barriers between ourselves and our inner world. Fear, doubt, disbelief. Every I can't, I shouldn't, I'm not strong enough, smart enough. Every limiting thought and habit distances us from our true power and potential.

Our chief aim should be the relentless task of getting in touch with our inner source of power. And that will require us to conquer all doubt and fear. That will require faith, and belief in our own abilities. AND DO NOT DOUBT THIS FOR A MINUTE! You are more powerful than you'll ever know.

As long as you have trouble, not only with women but with life in general, you are guaranteed to be harboring fear and self doubt. Or it would rather make more sense if I said; as long as you harbor fear and self doubt you are guaranteed to have trouble in all walks of life. If you notice, the majority of successful people, (entrepreneurs, politicians, musicians) are usually successful in almost anything they do. That is because the belief in their own abilities pushes them ever upwards and onwards.

But how do we step out of our cage and stand in the mighty face of fear, conquer self doubt and eliminate weakness? In order to answer that question we first have to know where all these enemies originate from.

They take shape in our thoughts. Our thoughts are literally responsible for every success or failure in our lives. For our physical reality is merely an extension of our thoughts. The seeds of all accomplishments begin in the mind. I very strongly suggest you read James Allen's As a man thinketh if you haven't already. It's amazing that we hold in our skull the single most powerful computer in the known universe and yet we do not have the instruction manual for it. Most of us don't even have the slightest clue just how powerful the human mind really is.

Now lets get down to business. When you manage to eliminate fear and walk with confidence, it's amazing just how cooperative your mind becomes. Our minds are our greatest allies and yet they are almost always crippled by fear. Believe it or not you can come up with an infinite range of conversation topics in a split second, you instinctively know how to approach women, you know what to say, how to say it and more. Only trouble is, there is a layer of negative energy between your conscious and your subconscious mind that is stopping all that creativity from flowing out. Right now as I type these words I don't think about what I'm going to write next. Words simply flow out. I make no effort at all. I am merely a medium. I simply think about the general direction of the conversation and my subconscious mind does the rest. Word after word, paragraph after paragraph. All flows out without any premeditated thought. That is the same principle used by highly masculine, testosterone pumped males to get women. It's unfair to call them mindless robots but that is to a great degree what they are. They instinctively trust a higher and more powerful force than they could ever muster and surrender to it. A while after I started on this path I noticed some very wonderful things. One example is a day at the train station when I approached a couple of girls. Normally I would have sat there thinking about my strategy, trying to come in terms with my negative self talk and all the stupid philosophies that we normally weave, but this time my mind automatically went blank. Something took over and my body started moving. My higher self was directing everything I did. I approached, I initiated the conversation with more confidence that I could have ever dreamed of, I engaged and I conquered. Never having entertained one premeditated thought or strategy! I had managed to eliminated the bars of negative energy that imprison the inner beast! That wonderful wonderful masculine beast.

You see, the more techniques you read about, the more so called advice you get from people, only serve to cripple you more. They become a layer of noise between your conscious mind and the inner power. More energy trapping the beast! There are many ways of eliminating this energy, but the greatest two are through achievement and good ole Testosterone!

Success in the things we do has the potential to increase our confidence and self esteem to very very high levels. Success itself comes from two things. Conquering the forces within and conquering the forces without. The former is infinitely more powerful than the latter. But that is not to say that the latter does not play an important part. It does. But if years of meditation have taught me anything, is that the greatest joy in life and the greatest source of confidence comes from conquering the self. The practice of self discipline is absolutely essential to every DJ. Without self discipline you cannot accomplish anything worthwhile. So be a man! Be decisive. If you say to yourself you'll wash the car then wash the car. If you promise to be at a meeting at 2:00pm then be there at 1:55pm. Do everything you do with mastery. If you're washing your car then wash it like Michael Angelo painted. Inject self discipline in everything you do and soon you will notice something so wonderful you will not allow yourself a moment of laziness ever again.

But what's more is that you can boost your confidence so much more by conquering the mind. We are all addicts to lesser or greater degrees. Consumer culture has made slaves of us all and poisoned our minds with numerous addictions to the point where it is said that the majority of people have the concentration span of less than 10 seconds. Go ahead and try it! Concentrate on your breath and see how long you can center your thoughts for. Most people last about 6 to 8 seconds before falling into reverie.

What you can do is start by giving up some of your addictions. For you, it might be eating less, giving up smoking, not thinking about women all the time. YES THAT IS AN ADDICTION! Whatever weaknesses you have in your life try and zoom in on one that you think is the most destructive and work to eliminate it. You will find that you will be in a constant daily battle with your own mind. It's not easy but the rewards are great.

Furthermore, whenever you succeed at something, whenever you accomplish a task make sure you acknowledge it! Small accomplishments can go a long way to help you increase your personal power when you notice them. And remember that all power always flows from within. Now I'm not sure if any of you people have ever met a truly powerful person before or not. A fortune 500 CEO or a political figure. It is truly an amazing experience. You can literally feel the aura flowing out from them. Their energy fills the entire place. It even rubs off on the people nearby to the point where I went on a power trip after having a one on one conversation with a great CEO. After I walked out of the seminar where I met him I felt like a god! Unfortunately that feeling didn't last very long. But it got me thinking.

Once you change your thoughts, once you start resonating powerful auras and energies ******d, things start happening. Strange things. Women start to notice you. Employers respect you more. You start getting better job offers. The list is endless. It all comes from within people! If you are serious about your life, if you are motivated enough to make something of yourself then forget everything you have read so far and begin working on your character. It is the greatest thing you can ever do for yourself.

Now, Testosterone! There probably is enough on this site about increasing this wonderful chemical in your body. But I've noticed that two things can greatly increase it if done in combination. Heavy workout and porn! We all love our porn don't we? And a lot of us enjoy a good workout. So try this for a while and see. Before your workout watch a good hardcore porno. But for god's sake don't jack off!!! Masturbation is one of the greatest addictions and when done frequently it does nothing but psychological damage. It literally turns you into a timid creature! Forget what all the jackoffs telll you about wanking. Stop doing it today! There are times when there's the danger of foaming at the mouth and going on a shooting rampage if you don't blow off some steam! I understand that. But if it's a weekly or even worse daily ritual with you, you will be doing yourself a great favor by quitting. It'll be one of the hardest things, but again, the rewards are great. You will feel much much better about yourself.

Now back to my point. Watching porn greatly increases your testosterone levels. Half an hour of porn followed by a good workout and a nice hot shower can leave you feeling like a million dollars.

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Another thing about porn. When boys are growing up, there is a lot of confusion and mystery surrounding female genetalia. From an early age most of us are spellbound by them. Girls too always notice the effect of their bodies on boys. Years go by and a kind of a dark spot is left in our subconscious that emanates a kind of anxiety that can last well into old age. This takes place well below the subconscious level and is not noticed, nor is it eliminated after we have lost our virginity. There still remains in most our minds a kind of mystery.

The effects of this can be greatly decreased by watching porn. Notice your breathing when you are watching. Are you excited? Are your breaths rapid and shallow? If yes then keep watching day after day until you can sit through a porno and be relatively calm during the whole show. Kind of like watching a pleasant movie. You'll automatically notice that you won't be so intimidated by women anymore. That's if you were to begin with. And if you are on this site then chances are that you are. To some extend anyway. And remember, no jacking off! No hair will grow out of your palm and you won't go to hell but every time you release sperm outside a female body your are putting down your own character and that has some very negative effects on your subconscious. Believe it or not, it doesn't make a difference to me.

So go ahead. Battle your own mind and try to conquer the turbulences within. Eliminate as much noise in your head as you possibly can. It's ok to think. Thinking is how we grow. But it's not ok to read other people's posts and take their advice on faith then try and implement it in your life (I am fully aware of the irony here). If you employ any knowledge in your life then make sure it stems from within. Trust your instincs and try to become more intuned with them. AND KNOW that there is a great force within your own mind that knows more than you can possibly comprehend. Trust it and have faith in it. With work and persistence you can accomplish anything. But you must understand one thing. To accomplish anything worthwhile, your desire to accomplish it must be greater than your love of ease. A lot of people say that they want to become rich, they want to become great DJs or musicians, etc. But that is not enough. Your desire for these things must be so great to make you work hard for them. So instead of watching TV you're in the library, studying finance. Instead of hanging out with mindless people drinking, you're out there researching a business idea. You're out there talking to women. Desire is where it all begins. If it's not strong enough to make you work hard and work persistently then it's not much use trying. First increase that fire in your belly and then go for it. Because with a strong enough desire no work is ever hard or boring.

If this post manages to ignite even the smallest of sparks out there it has done it's job. Trying to give people a different parspective of things has been a burden of this text and I will be happy if it manages to accomplish that even in the slightest.

All the best
Cleric
 
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Excellent, excellent post, Cleric!

This is a 5-star tip and should definitely be added to the new DJBible.

There's so much to comment on, but this post has invigorated me so much that I really don't feel like dragging out all that I have to say.

Let me just say that another benefit of porn is that you come to accept that women love sex, want sex, and want as much of it as possible. When I see some hot chick in a video sucking a guy off, all doubts are removed from my mind that women LOVE to do this stuff. ALL you have to do is give her the opportunity to do it and verify in her mind that you are a cool guy and won't judge her for it.

I'm still trying eliminate the "noise" between my conscious and my subconscious. Routines and patterns are VERY alluring, but I know that they won't benefit me in the long run, because they will not be completely natural.

Cheers,
Duke
 

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best advice i've ever read on this board...

and so well expressed and written out....and also so powerful yet quite concise..
 

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Originally posted by Duke
Excellent, excellent post, Cleric!

This is a 5-star tip and should definitely be added to the new DJBible.

There's so much to comment on, but this post has invigorated me so much that I really don't feel like dragging out all that I have to say.

Let me just say that another benefit of porn is that you come to accept that women love sex, want sex, and want as much of it as possible. When I see some hot chick in a video sucking a guy off, all doubts are removed from my mind that women LOVE to do this stuff. ALL you have to do is give her the opportunity to do it and verify in her mind that you are a cool guy and won't judge her for it.

I'm still trying eliminate the "noise" between my conscious and my subconscious. Routines and patterns are VERY alluring, but I know that they won't benefit me in the long run, because they will not be completely natural.

Cheers,
Duke
First of all thank you for your kind words and secondly I must say that the myth that men alone are obsessed with sex is the biggest scam ever sold to the public by these feminists and their equally feminized male counterparts. We might have sex on our minds a lot of the times but at least it's a consistent drive. As far as my own experience goes with young girls especially between the ages 16 to 20 years old (I'm only 22 myself so I'm not a pervert. Not a very big one anyway :D) is that when in heat, whatever part of their brain is responsible for making logical deductions is completely cut off from the rest and they become wild animals. There have been times when I have been bitten and scratched to the point where I had to stop and ask her if she was alright only for her to stick her head out and go "what are you talking about?".

If women do happen to be closed minded when it comes to sex it's purely a cultural trait reflecting back to religious and conservative backgrounds. Otherwise their biological instincts are constantly sending them a very different message indeed! You are right. Women love sex, and so do men. All taboos around sexual practices are purely artificial. So relax and enjoy the game. Cuz that's what life is. A game. If you take it seriously you lose. It's that simple.
 

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Originally posted by chicksrock
best advice i've ever read on this board...

and so well expressed and written out....and also so powerful yet quite concise..
And yet non of it was premeditated.

Trust your own mind. It's your best friend and ally!
 

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Hi cleric from my point of view your buddhist, or anotherwords you read lot about buddhism... your post is based on buddhist - Zen understanding.... our mind is all we need... because theres everything for us in it.... and yes our mind is our friend and ally... but our mind is our worst enemy at the same time.... Anyway just wanted to say that great post.... i can relate to it a lot...

Cheers !

Peace !!
 

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I almost gave up when I heard the word "mystic" but heaven knows, I'm glad I didnt.

Exquisite.
 

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wonderful post...i'm so glad that don juanism and masculinity is turning into more than just "tips and techniques".

and also...

he's right about "As A Man Thinketh". i own the barnes and noble edition and it's great.

5 stars all the way.

posts like these are RARE i tell you...RARE!!!!!

thank you for the encouragement.

oOh Nasty.
 

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Watching porn before workouts is a good idea. It's just like working out in a gym full of ladies ;)

A one of a kind post! Thanks Cleric
 

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Can we all say hell f*cking yeah?

I think we can. Hell yea. I've been wanting to say the same thing, but I couldn't express it like you.
 

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great post
 

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Five stars from me... I really need to start getting back into buddhism, I've been slacking recently. It really will help get your mind and your life on track.

Keep this stuff coming!
 

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That was some GOOD sfuff!

We have no IDEA how powerful the human mind is... It is just incredeble, the difference between sucessful people and regular peopl, DJ and a AFC is the mind.

Im interested in buddist philocophies, it so full of wisdom, and the fundemental truths/principles of this universe. If any one had some good sites or forums about buddism please post, I want to know.
 

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LOL watching porn before a workout is a BAD idea not a good idea. The whole time you'll just wanna wack off and likely drop a dumbell on your face.
 

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Finally a legitamite reason to watch porn. :D

I workout regularly so I will have to give this a try. Thanks for the tip.

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Cheers for the wonderful comments people. I feel so full of energy after reading them all.

Alen-Delon

You're right I do read a lot of buddhist philoshophy.

And yes our minds CAN be our worst enemy. We must learn to use our minds. Your mind is a very powerful tool that is constantly turning your thoughts into reality. You are what you think. If you don't take control of your thoughts then they will manifest themselves in the form of a hectic lifestyle. It's like being drunk behind the wheel of a speeding vehicle.

AMF

Mysticism is often mistaken for dogmatism and superstition But the truth is the exact opposite. Many people have the wrong impression of it.

Tai

This is exactly what I'm talking about. If you have so little control over your mind that you are likely to drop a dumbell on your face then I suggest you try and master that weakness.

here's a Zen story to put things into perspective.

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After winning several archery contests, the young and rather boastful champion challenged a Zen master who was renowned for his skill as an archer. The young man demonstrated remarkable technical proficiency when he hit a distant bull's eye on his first try, and then split that arrow with his second shot. "There," he said to the old man, "see if you can match that!"

Undisturbed, the master did not draw his bow, but rather motioned for the young archer to follow him up the mountain. Curious about the old fellow's intentions, the champion followed him high into the mountain until they reached a deep chasm spanned by a rather flimsy and shaky log. Calmly stepping out onto the middle of the unsteady and certainly perilous bridge, the old master picked a far away tree as a target, drew his bow, and fired a clean, direct hit. "Now it is your turn," he said as he gracefully stepped back onto the safe ground. Staring with terror into the seemingly bottomless and beckoning abyss, the young man could not force himself to step out onto the log, no less shoot at a target. "You have much skill with your bow," the master said, sensing his challenger's predicament, "but you have little skill with the mind that lets loose the shot."
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After winning several archery contests, the young and rather boastful champion challenged a Zen master who was renowned for his skill as an archer. The young man demonstrated remarkable technical proficiency when he hit a distant bull's eye on his first try, and then split that arrow with his second shot. "There," he said to the old man, "see if you can match that!"

Undisturbed, the master did not draw his bow, but rather motioned for the young archer to follow him up the mountain. Curious about the old fellow's intentions, the champion followed him high into the mountain until they reached a deep chasm spanned by a rather flimsy and shaky log. Calmly stepping out onto the middle of the unsteady and certainly perilous bridge, the old master picked a far away tree as a target, drew his bow, and fired a clean, direct hit. "Now it is your turn," he said as he gracefully stepped back onto the safe ground. Staring with terror into the seemingly bottomless and beckoning abyss, the young man could not force himself to step out onto the log, no less shoot at a target. "You have much skill with your bow," the master said, sensing his challenger's predicament, "but you have little skill with the mind that lets loose the shot."
Thanks, I hadn't heard that one.
 
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